How to fully embrace TRP?

SkorchZang · 2016-06-27T04:53:43+00:00

I feel you man. It's tough after years of brainwashing to change everything about yourself. At first, the small victories are always followed by major disappointments, when you again and again slip into that familiar blue pill autopilot mode and then kick yourself after when the predictable result emerges.

Once you have the theory down, you understand it and it's part of you - it comes down to enough practice and developing your own subtlety about it. So my advice is to work on establishing a number of regular plates, women who are going to teach you more about women than you ever wanted to know (mostly by kicking your ass emotionally and breaking your heart over and over). Don't set yourself up for fail by aiming too high and expecting any of them to be "the one" or even somehow different from the ordinary. Simply enjoy them and yourself, while keeping on your toes and dodging those shit tests, allaying their insecurities, loving them with non-needy love, like daddy loves his little girls.

My only other "one weird trick" suggestion for you is to experiment with putting yourself in the middle of wild nature for extended amounts of time, or however much you can arrange regularly. There is just something about it, modern life sucks the life out of you; but this will replenish quickly and efficiently. You will notice the difference and wonder what the fuck is supposed to be so special about that swim you took in that cold-ass forest lake on a whim... yet something does change, and you even see women take note of it by paying more curious attention to you.

lionofthejungle · 2016-06-27T07:10:49+00:00

Read the sidebar.

SovereignWings · 2016-06-27T04:43:56+00:00

You are what you habitually do. A paradigm shift feels strange at first but then, like a new car or apartment, becomes part of you. The more you do it the more natural it becomes. This is actually how learning works for everything - awareness, practice, naturalization, mastery.

"Learn your instrument. Learn the music. Then forget all that crap and just play."

Title	How to fully embrace TRP?
Author	a_NULL
Upvotes	1
Comments	4
Date	June 27, 2016 3:08 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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