How to get over height insecurity?

Infernir · 2020-01-03T23:28:14+00:00

I've seen too many guys 6'0 to 6'3 act beta, insecure, stupid, or unconfident with women to fucking believe all the retarded young women saying "6 foot + guys only!!! <3 <3 <3 <3 <3" to all their friends. Lets not make this a 2020 thing please shut that shit down wherever and whenever you see it, or else we might as well fat shame women as much as possible and point out the double standard, 99% of women can change their weight while guys past a certain age can't do anything about their height.

The truth is women can never be believed or listened to and very rarely truly know what they want in a guy. Besides even if they could be believed? Some of them say a lot of shit about guys but still fuck them. They will bitch, complain, moan and cry about guys in all sorts of ways but still end up in bed with these same guys. So tell me? Are you gonna let your height insecurity define your frame with women? You're gonna give other people power over you? That's where all insecurity stems from, seeking validation and approval from others.

Sure it does have some benefits and can make your perceived value higher but this can be said about fucking millions of things, and you still have to maintain it.

Meanwhile there's always a 5'8 chad going around fucking all of them, unless they associate his sexy face, strong frame, and charisma with him also must being 6'0+ it must mean something nefarious is going on here... maybe height isn't that important of a factor? Maybe it's just apart of people's fantasies... though it says absolute shit about who they're attracted to and will fuck in real life given the option. They won't get some 6'5 chad magically in front of them gaming them. THAT'S YOU. All that matters is your frame, your personality, your status, your everything.

If you're taller than the girl you're gaming or around the same height you can't fucking say shit about it or think too much about it, if you do i'll say 99%+ of time it's your insecurity or other things unattractive about you to the girl... or your behavior and putting her on a pedestal. I've yet to encounter a girl who said 6ft + only and literally only gave 6ft + guys a chance or fucked them. Besides the whole reason girls say shit like this is cause of scarcity (15% 6ft + guys?) well add that part of my fantasy, along with a billionaire dude who owns 10 yachts.

Regardless, let's say height does truly matter and even if you become some high status super sexy and confident guy, women will always choose the taller dude. How does that help you? There's literally nothing you can do about it beyond extremely painful & extremely expensive surgery (if you had that kind of money you could literally pay 1000 sexy girls for sex all across the world, if that doesn't fix your confidence nothing will), you can't control their choices or the stupid reasons they chose that dude. Never waste your life focusing on what you can't control, that will only bring you unhappiness at best, focus on what you can, perfect that and leave the ball in everyone else's hands since attraction is a 2 player game.

The truth is 5'8 - 5'10 is not too bad and around average or slightly above 50%. Perfect your posture, always choose shoes that make you seem a little taller and get big if you really want to alter your height so badly. However it will never end dude, you can literally be insecure about anything, you can literally overthink anything, you can literally get paranoia and be beta in mind frame and life about everything. You have to fix the deeper issues with you and give women a chance to be attracted to you, if you reject yourself because of your height how the fuck do you expect women to accept you?

The journey isn't easy, and a lot of shit will happen to you when you finally start pulling sexy women too (you will find out how many orbiters, other guys they have in their life, all the fuck buddies or fwb they have... or had... and this will all make you insecure too when you learn to make them your plate).

After you get experience you literally just have to go through the anger phase, then the becoming the best version of yourself phase, then the practicing TRP fully irl phase. Then after a couple months of doing that you're fully alpha, a true man. The most down to earth badass guy you could possibly be on this planet. NOTE: YOU. not other men. Nothing people say or do can break your frame lest being tortured (fake breaking frame to survive). You have emotions but are stoic about everything and anything that happens, rational, logical, know that no matter what you will be okay as long as you have yourself. You're your lover, you're your best friend, you're the prize... then you accept a even more glorious truth, women aren't really shit anyway, sex, affection, and attention cute feminine women are nice but they're just a small part of life and in no way compare to the actually shit... You.

Women are the ones who will be super insecure because of you and all other guys. They will want YOU to like them, to love them, to give them attention, praise, kindness, or whatever!!! They will fuck you just to spend time with you. You're the prize. Sadly this is dangerous, since when you become this powerful, attractive, and a rock... some weaker women will look for you to give them security, comfort, but no matter what you say or do you will never be able to truly satisfy them. They will always seek validation, attention, care from men and thus will acquire orbiters or get addicted to things like instagram, snapchat, twitter etc etc.

oldchunkofcoal_ · 2020-01-03T20:44:58+00:00

stoicism, you cannot control your height my man

legend503 · 2020-01-03T21:10:04+00:00

I'm 5'5

Sincerely. Stop bitchig about it. You're in heaven already you wimp

Sorry. This post shouldn't even be made. You can literally pull just because your height.

casemodz · 2020-01-03T20:50:47+00:00

5'10"? That's not even short bro. And being tall don't mean shit. Im 6'1" girls still want a super confident perfect guy. I don't get pussy thrown at me just for being tall or attractive.

Practical-Animal · 2020-01-03T22:52:12+00:00

Women don't need you to be perfect man. You are tall enough

vullnet123 · 2020-01-04T00:34:45+00:00

You're really bitching about being over avg height? There are dudes who are 5'5" who'd kill for another inch and you're bitching about dumbass shit.

Unbiased101 · 2020-01-04T07:57:41+00:00

Height doesn't matter. Im 6'1 and one of my good friends is literally like 5'4 lol he is always in a LTR with women that aren't bad looking either

He definitely has little mans syndrome though

SexSLA · 2020-01-03T21:22:47+00:00

15% of men are over 6 feet. 3% of men are over 6'2.

I doubt you're actually surrounded by people who are over 6'.

Even if you are it doesn't matter. Women think I'm 6'. I'm 5' 9".

The average guy on dating apps exaggerates his height by 3 inches.

Women literally can't see those 2 inches between you and a 6' person. It's all in your head.

amphix339 · 2020-01-03T20:46:57+00:00

Put on weight

RaidenDark · 2020-01-03T21:17:37+00:00

Realize that you're a fucking idiot about this and need to chill the fuck out

I'm half a mind to call this out as being satire over how unbelievably stupid you sound

femaledoglover6 · 2020-01-03T21:07:58+00:00

Shoe lifts

FiveStarTendieDinner · 2020-01-04T02:00:00+00:00

Get wider, not taller. I'm 5' 10" and I don't give a fuck who's taller and who's shorter. We're all the same height laying down so lay a bitch out.

qiis · 2020-01-03T21:16:09+00:00

if thats how you feel then your either frauding 5'10 or all your friends/people in your country are tall

SmegmaDO · 2020-01-03T21:53:18+00:00

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BuckNekkid18 · 2020-01-04T00:12:20+00:00

You're skinny. I'm 5'9 and I'm 155, but you're fine when it comes to height. Most women are 5'2 to 5'6 and you're taller than 90% of them WITH heels. '

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Snowboard18 · 2020-01-04T04:12:11+00:00

Stop giving a fuck

SleazeballG · 2020-01-04T14:34:07+00:00

Come on man, you know women suck at measurements. When they say 8 inches they mean 6 inches. When they say 6 inches they mean average dick.

You just need to be taller than her, that's it. Even in some cases you see women taller than their men.

You do a combat sport, that alone sets you apart from other men.

Do you think Jason Statham gives a shit about his victoria secret wife being taller than him?

VictxrSenpai · 2020-01-04T15:44:43+00:00

Im literally the same height as you and the only thing i can say is stop being a bitch and suck it up

power_cleaner · 2020-01-05T02:11:56+00:00

You’re a 140 lbs. I’d fix that first. If you work out super hard you’ll probably grow. I grew 2 inches after 18.

Title	How to get over height insecurity?
Author	baldeagle0304
Upvotes	0
Comments	65
Date	January 3, 2020 8:37 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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