How to get over my Oneitis?

RiseAboveIt · 2014-05-04T15:26:21+00:00

What your gf said to you is the same as my cheating ex

cut contact. I succumbed and talked a few times but try to ignore her. There is no going back. You will not get together.

It's hard man but we in the same boat. I cried. Got angry got upset but it's ok to feel emotions. Just know when the line is. It's easier to have pity on yourself. Its hard to v3 happy but work for it

on phone sorry for grammar

liftedhabits · 2014-05-05T02:37:53+00:00

Step 1. Realize she's a whore Step 2. Realize she's gonna fuck a bunch of dudes during her rebound stage Step 3. Cry till you can't cry no more Step 4. Throw away everything of her/reminds you of her Step 5. start gym regime Step 6. Fuck bitches

FunPun · 2014-05-04T10:12:54+00:00

Wow, this sounds pretty heavy. Why did you two break up?

sproondeermaan · 2014-05-04T12:03:16+00:00

Lift. Spin more plates. Forget about her.

deptii · 2014-05-04T18:53:02+00:00

Realize that nobody on this planet is very unique. You can find the same qualities or better in someone just as easily as you found them in her. Focus on the negatives of the relationship and how you can do better. Then, focus on yourself for a bit. Get back to a place where you are happy, successful, etc, and then don't lose that state of mind when a woman comes along.

LibertarianLibertine · 2014-05-04T22:09:30+00:00

It's been two weeks, cut yourself some slack. Hit the gym some more and wait a bit longer till you're ready to fuck new pussy, it'll go faster than you think.

Cryocasm · 2014-05-04T23:46:06+00:00

Consume an inane amount of alcohol.

Talk to other women and do not show passion for them immediately, make them want to come to you. Once you've gone through half a dozen you should start to feel better about yourself.

abcd_z · 2014-05-05T06:47:57+00:00

Old PUA advice: Go Fuck Ten Other Women (GFTOW).

megatron37 · 2014-05-04T17:09:57+00:00

My favorite comedian Pete Holmes says he visualizes the woman on the toilet taking a giant, nasty dump. Like a toilet clogger. It works.

Also, take some time to reinvest in and reinvent yourself.

Title	How to get over my Oneitis?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	5
Comments	16
Date	May 4, 2014 10:08 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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