How to get sexual experience initially?

brooklynisburnin · 2016-08-16T22:37:03+00:00

I was a kissless virgin until 25, no joke, after doing pickup for three whole months, my first kiss came totally unexpected one night I wasn't even thinking about women, just because I lifted and was wearing a particularly tight t shirt that made me look awesome.

I didn't even had time to worry about how to french kiss, I just did it and it was good.

Same with sex, actually a lot worse, first time I had a naked woman in my bed, I couldn't even get it up, but she was really into me and we fucked around for like 2 months, and I was fully conscious that my performance was decent at most, still she kept saying I was fucking her brains out. That was, to me, clear testament of how much SMV and attitude can compensate for experience.

Two personal advices:

1) Those guys that pick up women like nothing, you are only seeing their success, what you don't see is the hundreds of rejections they go through.
2) Don't make the same mistake as me and focus on performing well only, as in giving her orgasms, a lot of her enjoyment is in seeing you fuck her in the positions you want and basically being dominant.

TheLonelyQuebecer · 2016-08-16T22:26:29+00:00

As well you may take the time to read some core RP books if you haven't already such as redpillhandbook.com and The Rational Male from Rollo Tomassi. In my case I found books helped me forge my mindset and my perception of myself versus women. If you are not fit, go outside and/or at the gym and do some cardio + lifting. If you are keep up the good work and keep socializing more and more everyday!

trpthroway123 · 2016-08-17T14:49:01+00:00

I feel like there is something wrong with me.

It's called "being a bitch". You're afraid, plain and simple.

I'm not a loser

Evidence matters more than your personal perception. Evidence says you're a loser.

Great, now that's out of the way, time to discuss fixing it.

Stop being a bitch, and you won't be such a loser.

Talk to everyone you encounter. Strike up conversations. Crack jokes, make sexual comments, cross those lines you've spent the past 24 years too afraid to cross. You can't stop fear, but you can condition it out of you through exposure. Get out of your comfort zone until that comfort zone expands.

Talk to girls, too. Get their name. Make them laugh. Get their number. Set up a date. SHOW YOUR INTEREST AND INTENT. Employ kino. Escalate until they stop you. You'll never find the limit if you don't test the boundaries. Read some of the guidance on game if you don't know how to do this.

You know why those guys get laid in a few hours? Because they tried. That's it. Literally, swear to you, that's it. They saw a girl, they showed their interest, they escalated, and the girl just plain didn't stop them because they were interested too. Sure, they failed before, and will fail again. The thing is, if you don't try, you'll never succeed.

Get out there and try.

7Fig · 2016-08-16T22:22:00+00:00

Read "The Game"

Title	How to get sexual experience initially?
Author	loserwhosuckatlife
Upvotes	1
Comments	5
Date	August 16, 2016 9:50 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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