How to hold frame through text?

redcamouflage · 2015-03-02T23:38:40+00:00

The way I see it, this isn't really about the channel of communication.

she said "WHAT IS THE URGENCY", Me: No urgency, Her: "then I will send them soon"

Briffault's Law is universal, just like any physical law. It is present regardless of scale. Bacterial microcosms are bound by the same laws of gravity as skyscrapers. Similarly, the tiniest favor from a woman is subject to the same "what do I have to gain/lose from this?" check that decides whether she lets you blast your jizz up her butt. AKA: if you were a real priority, she would make pleasing you a priority.

Addictedtoiron · 2015-03-03T00:11:31+00:00

You already answered yourself.

(a 7 who knows my worth I'd say)

She knows your worth and it's nothing for her

Does that mean my attitude is beta with fake confidence that stands out or that I'm alpha and she's betafying me?

The way you construct your sentence already shows how insecure you are. Guess whats the right answer?

Stop faking, stop giving a shit.

SkorchZang · 2015-03-03T00:39:40+00:00

Play with it, the less you take her little challenges at face value or serious, the better.

Her: WHAT IS THE URGENCY

You: my cunt itches, cunt

Her: ...

You: Just kidding darling, but yo get those pics to me tonight

Her: or what??

You: you already know

Her: c-word bomb?

You: might do "yo momma" this time lol

Just trying to give you the flavor. You don't give a shit if she's offended or " too busy", you challenge her instead, in a crass but sort of cute way. And never taking the interaction seriously, as you would with a man.

vandaalen · 2015-03-02T22:58:06+00:00

Not much you can do now. You showed, that you genuinly care about those pictures and she is just being a fucking cunt, enjoying her little power trip. Just don't answer anything and wait, if these pictures will come, or let others do your work and annoy her, instead of you having to do it, and then get these pics from them.

Yet even better: Cut that bitch from your life completely and just wait until your buddies have the pics.

liftedhabits · 2015-03-02T23:14:35+00:00

This is a stupid question. You can't hold frame through text because texting shouldn't be used to establish your frame. Only for logistics. I cringed when you said you asked her for pics twice, you need to find more plates. Then contradicted yourself saying "no urgency" yet you asked twice?

Heart-to-heart? Why even reveal emotions with a girl who has you in her frame. And you should say please, being alpha doesn't mean being a douche. Just comfortable with who you are.

I think you're trying too hard to act a certain way. Alpha mentality isn't achieved through validation, but by achievement.

RPSigmaStigma · 2015-03-03T02:15:36+00:00

Like this.

Title	How to hold frame through text?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	3
Comments	7
Date	March 2, 2015 10:50 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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