So this is probably from paranoia because one of my friends has recently been slapped with a sexual assault allegation that was not true but im not sure how to escalate. Up until now my method has been to game girls to the point where they just can't help themselves and start making out with me. Now that ive started trying cold approaches at parties and been hitting on HBs that are 8-9 this has been a lot less succesful. So what should i start looking for or whats a good rule of thumb to know when you can do what? If i get her into my lap is that enough to assume she's down to make out or are there anyother tell tale signs or am i overthinking this and should just stop being scared to go in?