How to last longer

xArcheo · 2016-10-13T04:01:54+00:00

At 18 you should be ready to go right away again. I'm 21 and like 60 seconds flat and I'm ready to go again. Fuck, when I was in an LTR with my ex I would cum inside and just keep fucking her (Which is dumb. Never cum inside unless you want kids).

Don't let it bother you. Also don't act like woah that was fast. Just take control of the situation. "Guess it's my turn now" and start going at her. If you don't act embarrassed she will go along with it. Especially if you just go at her aggressively like that.

You are still very young and lack experience. In time you will last longer. Don't let it bother you. I've had it happen before too. The important thing is that you don't let it phase you and you move on. The biggest obstacles we face are mental ones. One time I got drunk and couldn't get my boy up. It really had an impact on me and it was in the back of my head while having sex for the next several months. I constantly worried which in turn gave me ED. Don't let the same happen to you and worry so much about finishing that it happens again.

Also, was there a ton foreplay and anticipation leading up to this? If she was in your car and saying how bad she wants you when you get home or something then that'll do it. I've had many a times driving around looking for a place to fuck only to bust in a minute or two because of the buildup of sexual tension.

Either way. Don't let it phase you. Keep on trucking. In time you will get a better feel for your dick and you will be able to better control your orgasms.

coffeeandscripts · 2016-10-13T04:13:40+00:00

Try sing the solo of Stairway to Heaven in your head, getting all of the bends right. Song is organismic so you still look interested, but you'll last longer cause you aren't focusing on the sex/BJ.

wont_tell_i_refuse · 2016-10-13T02:00:34+00:00

Just play it off as comedy. I like to say "The first one's for me". Or I explain that I'm not fapping and this was obviously going to happen, then I fuck the hell out of her.

You're 18, you should be good to go again pretty soon after that.

BusterVadge · 2016-10-13T12:20:13+00:00

Experience.

SetConsumes · 2016-10-13T17:29:54+00:00

To ejaculate you need to be tense enough while holding your breath or not breathing much.

If you then keep breathing, deeply if possible, it makes it harder for you to ejaculate.

Not flexing your cock while breathing deeply will push the urge to ejaculate away.

This isn't cut and dry, but if you experiment and practice, you should see what I mean.

LLL3peat · 2016-10-13T01:28:35+00:00

It comes with practice. When you talk to each other just say it was that good, but you want to do it again. Comfort test but no excuses for it.

dammit_redskins · 2016-10-13T16:02:30+00:00

Maybe jerk off like earlier that day. Might help a little bit

MrGoodStuff05 · 2016-10-13T16:30:43+00:00

There's a few things you can try before and during the encounter.

As far as before, for preparation you can practice masturbating until the point you are about to cum, then stop for a few seconds, then keep masturbating, then stop when you're about to cum again, and keep repeating. This exercise helps you learn your body better and know your limits, it will help you control the situation, if you feel you're about to come, switch the position or stop for a few seconds.

During, you need to relax. If you're tense and you tense up your muscles, you will come waaaay faster. You don't need to be thinking about shit or gross things to have sex, be present in the moment, but be relaxed, enjoy it but also pace yourself. Once you've gotten the hang of it you can switch between fucking her rough for a few mins, then going slow for a few mins, back and forth, lasting long, they love that.

Ultimately, if all fails, try to get your hands on tadalafil. It will help you get over the mental hurdle of coming fast. At 18, you can have 10mg safetly. You can easily find sites online that sell it without prescription. If you can only find 20mg, then break the capsule in half. Do not drink alcohol with tadalafil, or you will have a bad time.

Good luck.

PlebDestroyer · 2016-10-13T04:39:29+00:00

Porn.

Title	How to last longer
Author	AttemptedArchitect
Upvotes	5
Comments	15
Date	October 13, 2016 1:07 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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