So I've only gone and committed the ultimate sin and landed myself in a long distance relationship with a woman I've known less than a month. I hear what you're all thinking, and you're probably right to a certain extent, but hear me out first.

So I met a girl and we spent a week together in a hotel. She's cool as fuck and was absolutely infatuated with me. No signs of crazy, bipolar or anything like that. Screened as hard as I could for a week of knowing her, no red flags that stuck out. We go back to our home towns and agree to keep in touch and see eachother again asap. We speak nearly every day, the odd message, facetime or phonecall. 2 weeks later she drives 2 and a half hours to visit me for Christmas sex. Afterwards she asks me for a ltr. She was chasing me the whole time, telling me shes never felt this way for anyone, basically serving my every need, so I said yeah fuck it.

Anyway. She goes back to her home town after that. I guess I fear a little that the moment we entered into a relationship I simultaneously entered into her frame, because now she is not as loving, and long story short seems to have let her hair down a lot. What I mean by that is she doesn't seem that bothered about attracting me anymore. She'll often send photos with no makeup, hasn't been down to be see me again since (3 weeks), doesn't send me sexy pics anymore, is not as soppy or infatuated etc. I asked her about this and she mentioned that she's just very confident in what we have together but will try to put more of an effort in. She even admitted the reason she doesnt do some of it as much anymore is because during those weeks she couldn't get enough of me and was doing her best to attract me. But now she's secure in what we have and doesn't feel the need....

Now not to toot my own horn but I can get laid pretty easily, I've been turning down advances left and right since being with this ltr. But I do genuinely like this girl a lot, she's very mature. I do wonder if I already fucked up by opening up to her about my feelings at certain points. I know for a fact she feels strongly about me and knows I'm wanted by other women, but she also thinks there's 0 chance I'll break up with her I think because I have reciprocated her very loving behaviour, maybe a little too much. As she's pulled away a bit I guess I have been pushing more because I want that attention back. I guess she's got me thinking why has she changed, maybe that's her plan. But I've seen no indication she's a game player, if she is pulling away I know its just a womans nature at play and not her own conscious decision.

So my question is this. How do I pull her back into my frame? Do I need to make her aware that I could leave at any time? Of course I do have a little oneitis for this girl, I wouldn't be with her if not. But I do have it under control and have other plates I can go to if need be. I've even thought of cheating just to get that abundance but she has been good to me so I feel it would be unfair. I just want her to be chasing again, but don't want to be a dick about it. Any ideas? I mean I think the answer would just be limit messaging and calls and keep it to logistics only, but it's definitely hard to do in an ldr. Any help is much appreciated!