How to overcome Ed from anxiety?

themostgianthorse · 2021-01-26T17:44:07+00:00

Focus on YOUR pleasure. For the purposes of you handling this, you need to imagine yourself as the most alpha alpha of all the alphas. She is submitting to you in that moment and she is for YOUR pleasure and in her submission, she will experience pleasure.

If you’re trying to meet her needs”, you will never meet them.

The fastest way I know of to not gain acceptance from a woman is to actively seek it.

Also, sex god method and no more mr nice guy.

vCynicalx · 2021-01-26T19:17:51+00:00

Bro everyone’s going to tell you to focus on you endlessly but it’s not so simple.

If you ever lose your moment go down on her or start doing something to her whilst you reassert yourself. It’ll remove the pleasure.

Also get good sleep and avoid a bad diet and go no fap.

Obviously long term we want you to focus on you and this removes pressure but for now to gain confidence just ho down on her if you go soft or something and you’ll see through the cracks and get better

spedoid · 2021-01-26T17:59:55+00:00

I never have trouble getting a boner, but lots of times I but before the girl cums lol. Usually I just just as she's telling me she's close 😂

What I do is just fuck slower when I feel like it's time to bust. After two or three times slowing down I get my composure back and fuck for a long time again

Also, stop thinking about her previous lovers. That is some cucked shit. Someday some guy will think you're the guy who fucked her before he did. Unless you're her first (would you want to be, anyway? nah) there's always someone before you. Just don't think about it

PMmethepussay · 2021-01-26T19:23:50+00:00

I am just going to say this. ED stems from low self esteem which is directly linked to your squat bench and deadlift max. All of these don’t think too much schemes will only disappoint you further. Take a break from sex and get your total up to at least 1000 pounds. Then we can talk

TheSpiciestSalsa · 2021-01-26T19:44:52+00:00

I wish I had your problems op...

Who cares how other guys did? Dicks a dick and a holes a hole. You don’t have to be fantastic (though it does help to be) just don’t be terrible as word spreads among women faster than Covid spreads. Read ‘The Sex God Method’ if you want some tips to fuck her good.

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btt069 · 2021-01-26T17:34:32+00:00

just yolo it man. you panick because you overthink. see every sex as a way to pleasure you. its for fun not for stress.

2021-01-26T19:36:38+00:00

no porn. reduce dopamine spikes from the internet.

Snowboard18 · 2021-01-26T19:48:42+00:00

If she’s a hoe and that makes you anxious then just get in the mindset that she’s a hoe so you don’t give a shit if she likes it cause she is not a prospect for any kind of serious relationship

br0lock · 2021-01-26T21:13:28+00:00

You can check out my response to the other guy in this thread, but that was more of a retort to his advice than advice for you. My main advice to you is try viagra or cialis. It is a great tool for the tool box. if you are really nervous or it's the first time with a girl, just swallow your pride and take the fucking pill. It will guarantee that you will get a boner and the sex will be enjoyable for you both. It will save you a whole lot of anguish, knowing you don't have to worry about the girl not having fun and not wanting to see you again. Since the medicine is easily available online, you have no excuse not to use it.

DanishApollon · 2021-01-27T16:11:22+00:00

I have sent you a message.

pearl713 · 2021-07-15T02:51:24+00:00

Seeking some advice, but I sadly can’t make my own post yet as I’m new: My (28) - now ex - bf (32) had been dealing with ED for a duration of our relationship. I was always supportive and tried to help me figure things out. He had been dealing with kidney stones & anxiety/depression. Obviously after a while it led to me being verrrrrry sexually frustrated…. But I remained faithful to him. Plot twist: I just found out he had been cheating on me sporadically for about 9 months.

I never gave him reason to have performance anxiety, I always wanted to have sex with him, but it was always on his terms due to his sporadic ED.

Just curious if anyone has any insight as to why he was dealing with ED which I assume is related to the gastro issues, anxiety & depression (which led to him cheating to seek validation, or so he claims), but why he couldn’t “get it up” for me, but could for this other woman?

xxx69harambe69xxx · 2021-01-26T18:26:33+00:00

just stop jerkin off to ur step cousin pics bro

Title	How to overcome Ed from anxiety?
Author	Happynessisthegoal
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Date	January 26, 2021 5:02 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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