So...first off, let’s say that this LTR is way above any other plate I could possibly spin or get, true fact. She gets hit on every time we go out, grandmas compliment her looks, she is a 9.5.

I have already upped my game, workout, interesting lifestyle and high earning status.

She seems to be very into me, sex on command, she will wear whatever I ask, and wants to move in together, and have my kids. I am pushing back on that... but she seems to be all in.

She has a male friend at work, who is orbiting her hardcore. I did not let this bother me as much, and was ok with the ocasional after work coworker drinks and did not let that throw me of frame or mate guard.

However, the friendship has progressed, and although this guy is not at all good looking, he has a very interesting and rich life. One that I can’t match no matter how hard I try or read the sidebar. This guy is a helicopter fucking pilot!!!

Recently, he asked my girl if she’d like to go up on a ride. When she told me, I maintained frame and was like, oh that’s great... the weekend kept moving along, and we had great sex and she told me she loved me and wants me to meet parents move in together bla bla bla bla. So I think I passed the frame keeping, but still the upcoming orbiter ride has got me in a ball of nerves.

Additional details: the coworker is married, and one more friend would come along for the ride, allegedly.

How do I maintain frame in this scenario? Keep in mind this is an LTR potential, she is damn near ideal match in every other way, except her propensity to attract orbiters and entertain orbiters.