Had a fuck date planned with a plate this past Friday, got in a questionable situation, deciding how to proceed.
Background: I have been keeping her in rotation for around a year and some months snow, she knows her place in my life and anything higher than plate is not an option or desire for either of us.
Friday: I made plans with her around 8pm to be at her place at 1am. She had been more vague with her messages than usual, but I was drinking with my friends and didn't think anything of it. 20/20 hindsight.
I show up and call when I park, she doesn't answer but I see her take a look outside her window quickly. Strange. Oh well. I go to the apartment and knock, no answer. I call and hear the phone ringing inside, no answer. Ah. Get in my car, meet back up with the guys and have a few drinks while I sweep through my plates that I know are night owls. Get a positive response from one and go over.
She had another man or some other BS was going on, I don't care. The disrespect though, it was disappointing. In the past year and change I've been seeing her she has never done that. Her being a spineless creature and not owning up to her mistake is expected though so I planned on cutting contact and that's that.
Today she texted me. Her: hey Me: sup Her: I'm sorry about the other day I left my phone in my sisters car and I went to do an errand (lie, a terrible one at that. Didn't even think it out. I don't even think she has a sister and no one is without a phone for 3 days) Her: I swear I'll make it up to you twice as good next time.
I haven't responded yet.
Now, I don't want to let the disrespect come of as ok but also I don't care enough to cut her off.
The pros outweigh the cons. She's a great fuck, a lot of fun and best of all excellent to schedule with. Date/time set I go to her place and I leave when I want. No dates, no drama, no questions, no expectations, no hassle. She knows I have others and I know she does too.
I have a few plays in my mind, but I'd like to know how would you guys proceed?
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