Im a 20 yo college student living in asia and people around me still see me as a nerd. I don't get it. I don't do nerdy hobbies(playing video games,read comics) i play guitar and write songs. I dont dress like a nerd(i do wear glasses because my eyesight sucked since i was 12). I don't spend my free time studying but i am doing well in academics. I lift 3 times per week and dress nicely. Definitely got a lot of attention from women. But still people cant seem to help but refer me as a smart bookworm type of guy and it really sucks since im working hard to get rid of that perception. One ONS called me a "badass nerd"(thefuck that even means)in front of her friends. Help?