How to stop hyper-analyzing social interaction?

JeffsRP · 2015-11-08T03:39:55+00:00

Calculating alpha quotients of all the guys around me

What good does that do you?

thinking of which one of the couples has the girl seeing Chad on the side, is that really his kid?

How does that help?

It's not a wrong way to view it, but it certainly is unhealthy to be focusing so much on this.

No shit. Focus on yourself and one other person at a time. You and that person create a bubble and have a good interaction. Fuck everyone else.

Is this part of one of the phases or does anyone have some tips to "normalize" how I view social interaction without losing sight of TRP?

This is you trying to avoid getting out of your comfort zone. You're making excuses in your head and then analyzing other people instead of being introspective and going "Why aren't I talking to the people I know I want to talk to? I'm being a little bitch. Right, time to approach"

awalt_cupcake · 2015-11-08T16:50:11+00:00

Learn to let that which does not matter, truly slide.
Practice slow breathing when analyzing in social situations to relax yourself and your mind.
Find fulfillment in the moment for you. Make every action about you in some way while being clever about it so that it seems that you've included others (a good way of getting information out of people).

Follow these 3 things and you'll begin to focus in your game and your game only. You'll also be smoother in social situations.

JChristOnIce · 2015-11-08T19:45:42+00:00

Honestly just find a situation where you can say "fuck it", then say "fuck it" and do whatever the hell you want. So long as you don't tell the president of the united states that you molested his daughter you're going to start to realize that nothing matters and nothing is going to happen.

"Life is meaningless; fall on your swords"

TRPdating · 2015-11-08T03:35:18+00:00

Yes, I went through the same phase. It was because the truth was so shocking, stimulating, and... clear. It's like the truths were so obvious that I felt I was living in some mad world where others just didn't see the truth, or were too scared to face it.

I'd say it took about six months before I stopped being so shocked by RP truths showing up at work, school, hearing stories from my friends, hearing it in hip hop lyrics (and subsequently beta bitch lyrics from alt rock), or watching it play out in clubs.

Does it bother you or something? Do you find it an overwhelming distraction or something else?

throwawaycomedian95 · 2015-11-08T09:31:03+00:00

You overanalysed when you first learned to ride a bike until you just got good at it.

Social skills run the same way.

preposey · 2015-11-08T22:41:16+00:00

Stop going on r/theredpill for one.

throw_em_all · 2015-11-09T20:30:25+00:00

I've been hyper-analyzing all social interactions

That goes away after some time, it happened to me for about 3 lays after I started getting serious regarding game, after that most basic stuff like the "I have a boyfriend" shit test gets tattooed in your brain so hard that you won't be alert all the time.

Title	How to stop hyper-analyzing social interaction?
Author	dj10show
Upvotes	8
Comments	23
Date	November 8, 2015 3:26 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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