New to the site, but feel like I've been implementing some of the core principles already (at least with my more successful relationships.)

Anyway, I have a girl that I've been working on for about 3 weeks now. For about two weeks things are going great. We're both busy and independent. Sex is good. We're cruising.

All the sudden it gets cold. I back off and don't communicate for about a week. Eventually show up at her work (she's a waitress) for a beer... we exchange pleasantries and the she drops a bomb on me that her best friend (guy... I'm assuming previous bf?) killed himself the week prior. I don't know what to say. I tell her to come talk to me about it, but it's a busy night and she can't.

Anyway, I show up at her house later that night. She doesn't want to come down. I tell her roommate I'm here for her, that she should talk to me about it. "Thanks, I know she appreciates that."

Maybe I'm expecting too much. Maybe it's too early for her to be that vulnerable around me? Side note, her dad recently passed. So I'm guessing this is bringing back all sorts of emotions.

What to do now? I haven't communicated with her since, and she hasn't reached out either. Thoughts?