I am having a HUGE problem

jjj2576 · 2019-09-27T19:34:45+00:00

What have you read in the Sidebar, OP?

Vermillion_Rx · 2019-09-28T01:50:15+00:00

No man. It's that you are not supposed to appear more invested in her than she is in you. She should get the vibe that while you're approaching and interacting with her, that you have other choices and therefore aren't going to try hard or be a simp for her

BusyHearing · 2019-09-27T19:35:10+00:00

Forget about this. Forget about women, focus on yourself, build yourself and these things will make sense. If you are even slightly worried about asking out women, or what they think, you aren't even in the right zipcode.

LatePillSwallower · 2019-09-27T19:31:20+00:00

Ask if she wants to come with you.

Have something fun your doing this weekend or tonight; invite her to come along.

Don’t make it a big production where your plans are dependent on her saying yes or no.

Shadowslight3x · 2019-09-27T20:00:09+00:00

Women don't want you to NEED them. They like being pursued

Domebeers · 2019-09-27T19:57:55+00:00

Don't fucking ask for one. Isn't this shit in the sidebar? Why are so many guys coming on here without looking up basic game principles first?

Also...females? they are fucking girls bro, who the fuck says females? Stop being a neck beard.

ITS NOT BETA TO FUCK. When you see a girl you like, 3 second rule. You know what that is because it's a basic game principle, right? Then go bantz. You can bantz because you've exposed yourself to people and social situations, right? And then you go from bantzing to leading, ideally leading her to a corner in the bar, and then out onto the street for an adventure, and then generally back to your place to fuck. You can lead because god gave you a dick, right? Just checking.

When the game gods say don't be engaged, they mean don't take it seriously. Whether this one particular girl fucks you or not isn't a big deal. And if you do fuck her, it's not a big deal. You don't go dorkolus rex and start being clingey. And when she shit tests you, you pass them. That's what 'not being engaged' is about. Yes, to fuck, at some point you will have to talk to 'females', declare your intentions, and plan logistics. Don't shit your pants.

MultiMidsets · 2019-09-27T22:20:15+00:00

Seems like your new to this

FieldLine · 2019-09-28T20:24:20+00:00

Stop saying “females” for one. That tells me you spend a non trivial amount of time reading incel crap rather than just doing the recommended reading and going out to try stuff.

CainPrice · 2019-09-27T19:31:48+00:00

Oh man. That's a TOUGH one. Really tough. Look at my use of capital letters.

I'm going to sleep on this and get back to you.

Title	I am having a HUGE problem
Author	TitaniumLobster
Upvotes	0
Comments	21
Date	September 27, 2019 7:26 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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