Hi trp,

So I caught herpes, but it could have been one of two people that gave it to me.

  1. A plate from a couple months ago that my friend slept with before me. I now found out that he has genital warts. This may be molloscum or herpes, he's not sure.

or 2. A plate that I've been sleeping with who has told me that she's had chlamydia before. Also, there were a few red flags which I have only realised now. She was very defensive about STIs, offering to show me results before we fucked. I saw her in the sexual health clinic last week and she made an effort to avoid eye contact with me, so I didn't speak to her.

Now I'm not planning to see plate #1 again, but my friend is getting his tested this week so I might find out about that one. However plate 2's stuff is still at my house. Now I'm down to sleep with her again (obviously with a condom) but how do I handle the situation? I'm assuming I don't directly confront her about having herpes, but do I just proceed as normal and don't mention the sexual health clinic at all? And what if she brings it up?

Also, what do I do about my other plates? I havn't spoken to them in 2 weeks. Do I wait until I'm fully healed and continue asif nothing happened? 2/3 weeks no contact straight into 'come over tonight I'm making dinner' seems a bit odd.

My bad if this is all over the place, just woke up