I commute to university, study computer science, have no friends left over from high school and work two nights a week. How can I form a social circle that has girls in it?

Snowboard18 · 2019-10-16T02:24:32+00:00

Join a club or get into a hobby that is social

GlobalArachnid · 2019-10-16T02:47:17+00:00

I'm starting to reach a breaking point. Nothing I do fucking works. I'm determined. I got accepted into university with shit grades and transferred degrees after one year of killing it in my studies without knowing any maths two years prior. How's that for determination to meet girls? I've been determined enough to come from studying in the middle of fucking nowhere and living poor to being accepted into a great university so I can get started on a great career. That part I've achieved. Now about my dream to meet cute, young girls? Nerds, nerds everywhere in computer science. No girls, no cool guys who know girls. I'm at the student union right now, just watching all the cute girls walk by... with their friends... not going to STEM building...

I'm not a PUA guys. I refuse to do PUA in university. It's university! I should be MEETING girls in my social circles. So, so many girls here... none in the STEM building... none in the university clubs and societies...

I'm putting all of my eggs in the university transfer basket. Please, other university. Please work for me. This is university goddammit. I should be meeting girls.

modelledfarm · 2019-10-16T03:21:50+00:00

Stop whining, university isnt what it was made to be, especially at commuter/STEM/non-party/academic universities. You can decide to try anyways to talk to girls in class, talk to girls outside of class in outside-school social events, talk to girls from tinder. those are the 3 options. or you can whine on reddit

BeeBopJoe · 2019-10-16T03:27:48+00:00

Social circles are overrated imo, especially if ur introverted. They are a chore to maintain, if your introverted u are probably "low value" in that circle anyways, and they are time consuming (time is better spent improving career/ self).

My advice would be to just focus on your school shit for now, once ur career is established then work on your cold approach skills.

GlobalArachnid · 2019-10-16T14:55:57+00:00

I'm so sick of fighting. I'm so sick of trying my hardest and going nowhere.

jzekyll4 · 2019-10-16T15:46:49+00:00

I’m in the same boat dude. I only have had two girlfriends and one hookup. But Here’s my advice. Bit unorthodox.

Don’t be afraid to have sex with older women. The guys I know who fuck 18-22 yos also bang older women. They’re easy, and they’ll teach you a lot. It looks a lot better to other women to be hanging with attractive older women than unattractive young ones.

But, getting older women isn’t too easy. If you’re attractive or tall they might come to you. If not, you need muscles. And that brings me to the main thing

You need testosterone. I have low normal levels. I literally repel women. I’m 6’2” white and strong jaw yet I repulse women. It’s because of my T levels. Quite simply.

If you want a social life you need to go out by yourself. You will meet people. Don’t play yourself down. Most guys you meet won’t necessarily know women either, but that’s ok.

Drug dealing is a great way to meet people. If you’re a test blasting drug dealer you won’t want for women.

Pedestalizing an age group will only hurt you tho. Yes attractive women 18-22 are attractive. But there are plenty that aren’t.

Don’t be afraid to race mix. If you’re ethnic that brings other challenges. Ideally you’re either white or black, because that makes it easy to race mix. Don’t pedestalize chicks of your ethnicity. Definitely don’t be afraid to be the white guy with black friends or the black guy with white friends or the Asian guy with black friends.

But I can’t stress the testosterone enough.

iCeeYouP · 2019-10-16T19:30:00+00:00

Poor op getting gaslighted like a motherfucker lmao

GlobalArachnid · 2019-10-16T06:16:57+00:00

Is just "talk to random girls walking by who have got places to be" the best advice you guys can offer me? Is that it?

TRP to guys in college/university: Just go to class, meet girls, expand your social circle and party! It'll never be this easy to create many amazing memories with other young people again!

TRP to me: Just talk to random ass girls o their way to class lol

Guess I just gotta wait for that university transfer to roll around.

I'm 22, guys. I should be young. I should be meeting girls, having fun with girls, fucking girls.

I'm a 22 year old university student, guys. I'm not a PUA.

I need to get out of this university. Please let me transfer... :(

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