But I need advice because I'm beta as fuck. I won't be telling you my life story but I'm really fucking beta as hell. I'll just point out that I have extreme social anxiety and was diagnosed with ADHD recently.

But I realized that life is too short to be miserable, and I want to change more than ever. I always wanted to be different, but rarely took action. I know that action is the most valuable thing, but it's been my biggest issue (especially regarding socializing/girls).

What I'm positive about is that deep down I always had a desire to become someone else. I'm not the type of slacker that will never admit his flaws and spend the rest of his days blaming everything but himself. Which is a good start I think

I won't lie though, I don't know where to start. I never had a role model as my father is a completely avoidant beta. I need guidance. Sometimes I wish I had an alpha "big bro" to help me cause my confidence is 5 levels underground.

This is why I'm asking you some advice to start moving towards this direction. Maybe some quick tips about small things I should start/stop doing right away. Or rules to remember, anything. Any help would be greatly appreciated