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I Got Plans

DarkSkinKakarot_ · 2018-04-05T01:26:02+00:00

So I have a new potential plate. She asked me to come to the library with her tonight. I told her I have plans. She keeps asking what plans. Do I divulge the...

DarkSkinKakarot_

April 5, 2018

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Title	I Got Plans
Author	DarkSkinKakarot_
Upvotes	2
Comments	18
Date	April 5, 2018 1:26 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/89vkg1/i_got_plans/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/i-got-plans.127216 https://theredarchive.com/post/127216

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[–]master_beta89 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Didn’t miss a thing.

OP has a girl who is interested in seeing him.

“Oh I can’t today, how about tomorrow” is literally seeing her ASAP.

It’s in his best interest to introduce a little dread until he actually wants to see her again.

Think about it this way, which creates more anxiety for you?

You ask out Jane Hotpants for drinks on Friday.

She says: no I can’t

She says: no I can’t, how about Saturday?

Option 1 puts the anxiety on you, “is she still interested, she didn’t make plans, what do I do?”

Option 2 is validating and makes things easy and comfortable.

TRP preaches that you kind of want to keep these girls on their toes because uncertainty creates interest.

Saying “ I’m busy, can’t tonight” is a total power grab. Now she either has to wait for you to make plans with her, or she can throw herself at you once more. Either way, you have the power

[–]cl35370 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

You completely missed how I flipped her question about plans into actually making them with her.

Texting is about logistics nothing more. If there is something I want to invite her along to do I will do that immediately.

Showing neediness and giving her the power, would be having pointless conversations over text for 3 days and then asking her out. I make plans, they can be for the next day or for 3 days from then, I make them nonetheless then radio silence until the confirmation text before the date.

I am not worried about anxiety, my status, who has the power. All silly head games which you can't play well over text. Assume she is interested and wants to see you right away until you hear otherwise.

Dread Game on a college girl you haven't fucked yet? No, just No, you are assuming her interest level is high, an invite to a library doesn't say anything close to that.

She could be riding some other guy's dick the next night but you will have the 'power' over the text interaction.

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