I hate maintaining frame cause I can’t deviate from it.

proplfax · 2019-10-16T06:04:21+00:00

not doing what you want to do because some faggots on the internet told you otherwise isn't having frame

WIA20XX · 2019-10-16T07:51:01+00:00

I had a girlfriend that used to wake up before me, put her makeup on, and then got back into bed - because she was so insecure about why I liked her.

That's what you sound like.

This red pill mask you are wearing doesn't say Alpha.

The alpha male decides reality.

If he wears a beard, that's masculine.

If he is clean shaven, that's masculine.

And you can't tell him otherwise. You cannot rock his reality with bullshit.

So in the context of a relationship, he's free to say what he wants and do what he wants. He doesn't limit himself.

Can he be wrong about something? Sure.

Can he change his mind? Sure.

Can someone bring him new information? Yes. How else can he make decisions?

But he can't be broken. Not my external things.

The only thing that breaks him, is himself.

If the chick can't accept that, he drops her or she moves on - but his sense of self doesn't change.

That's what guys are trying to say by "hold frame". It doesn't mean be this stubborn, unfeeling, emotionally stunted, can't express himself to the chick in his bed.

Instead, he is free of all of that.

His grasp of reality is firm.

The thing about hypergamy is that a woman could come across a bigger better deal at any time.

She's loyal to herself, loyal to her impulses, and sometimes her children.

But if she sees something else, if she doesn't feel in love anymore, if she gets bored - she'll bounce.

The Red Pill is a big warning as to a woman's unpredictable nature.

So the lesson for men is to not be surprised when she does what she does.

The lesson isn't to be a cartoon character.

[deleted] · 2019-10-16T06:12:24+00:00

She enjoys spending time with me nonetheless but for me it’s agonizingly painful to not be able to deviate too much from the frame.

Because you know the moment that you do she will lose all that attraction you've built with her.

Any advice?

You've got this girl where you want her. You're fighting a battle between your former blue pilled ways and the new red pill ways. Redpill you is winning the fight, but the blue pill you wants to sabotage everything. Embrace the pain and win the war.

thebadguy89 · 2019-10-16T07:00:43+00:00

Revealing stuff about yourself is fine - just make sure you always keep a little mystery. Girls act like they wanna know all your secrets but they actually don't.

idontmiind · 2019-10-16T07:49:50+00:00

If you can put yourself in more dangerous situations that require Ballz, you'll stop worrying about these things.

All these beta thoughts in a man with 'masculine frame' cus you haven't earned it yet. Face more fears. Go out. Act.

SoulRedemption · 2019-10-16T11:39:39+00:00

Do you, experience, be aware of the consequences. Reaffirm through these. You are in charge of your own life. You maybe unhappy now, you change and LTR, you maybe unhappy in a different way. But that is life, yours to experience, final decisions are with you..

Title	I hate maintaining frame cause I can’t deviate from it.
Author	cyyr
Upvotes	3
Comments	10
Date	October 16, 2019 5:16 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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