I just had a relapse

BruhMoment45886 · 2020-04-05T03:51:21+00:00

Theres two types of people in this world.

Masturbaters and liars.

Dont be ashamed everyone jerks off. It's just like slipping up on a diet. You get right back on the wagon and keep clean.

RabbidMan · 2020-04-05T06:28:55+00:00

Why are you so hard on yourself? Bro were quarantined all over the world right now. Getting pussy is tough right now. Even for guys in relationships, they may be getting pussy but this quarantine will test alot of relationships. I'm a man that has had threesomes, consistent plates and I normally have no problem getting laid. Now I'm struggling and due to my sex life being better than the average man. My sex drive is still as ridiculous as it has ever been and I still wack it daily. It's all about how you carry yourself. If you treat it like a addiction, like something to be ashamed of. Then it will become just that. But if you acknowledge that you are human and you will have ups and downs. Then you can learn to make it so that you aren't controlled by it as well. Balance is key.

scottandcoke · 2020-04-05T10:57:02+00:00

Can anyone actually point to any credible evidence that no-fap is beneficial?

I totally get the damaging aspects of watching too much porn but what exactly is the issue with choking my meat?

theUnBannableHulk · 2020-04-05T05:36:45+00:00

Don’t think of relapse as failure. Count how long it took to relapse.

Now compare how many times you DID NOT FAP compared to your earlier life, see, you’ve made progress.

And you’ll keep making progress until you’re not a COOMER or coomer-exciuser anymore.

You are failing less and less. 👍🏻

SpicyYeetJuice · 2020-04-05T04:14:24+00:00

My personal believe is that no fap is sexually repressing and makes men afraid of their sexual actions. It’s done with good intentions but when you don’t use it you lose it an on those no fap subs there’s guy who haven’t came in years it’s sad

Sylvester_Sterone · 2020-04-05T18:39:01+00:00

And here I am taking sunflower lecithin looking to release a big load

Decimus_Stark · 2020-04-05T12:13:18+00:00

First off, your looking at it wrong, the male sex drive is a very powerful thing, what you did by setting a goal is actually giving yourself permission to do it by drawing a line that is easily accessible and that shows lack of resolve. Next time don't make a goal. Cold Turkey it all. Your sex drive has more domaince over your psyche then you think, my advice you need to be fully committed if you do this. Your brain makes connections to retain memory, this is one enemy, because you rely on that to redirect you when your horney to solve the issue. Solution: get rid of the connections that connect you to porn. Theres programs for computers that block porn sites, get one. Second, meditation, this is a must. Sex relys on tension, you have to Eliminate that tension. Im Christian so I can just meditate on God and done. For a non believer, its going to be harder but think of a happy, but infact sexually revulting thought, ex. Your dog, or best dude adventure. Calming down is the key. The first month is the hardest, the horniness will be unbearable, so these things have to be implemented before then and you'll have to suffer when it comes. Find physical activities to do, like the proverb says Idle hans are the work of the devil. Take it day by day, you'll be fine.

2020-04-05T11:41:26+00:00

It's good that you feel no self respect after this - you are painfully aware that you are doing bad shit and you pay the price, imagine if you didn't feel any consequences of this stuff.

You have to be more strict with yourself. Go on monk mode for 30 days, don't use the computer/internet or use them only when you really need it. The problem with jacking off is that you do it because you are bored and/or you get triggers. You have to be busy at all times and eliminate things that remind you of this need. Don't be listening to the shit that masturbation is good, it is not. People cope with their weaknesses and say dumb things to feel better about it but you should be better. If you don't take serious steps, you will be relapsing until you die.

Title	I just had a relapse
Author	odellboi
Upvotes	0
Comments	16
Date	April 5, 2020 3:44 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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