I keep losing potential plate from the first date

walawalawa · 2018-02-19T09:27:43+00:00

I have a third bitch today, probably will fail too.

There's your problem right there: defeatist attitude and negative mindset.

Reframe it: I have a third option today. Probably be a blast if I maintain an abundance mentality and work on improving my game and myself.

covertpenguin3390 · 2018-02-19T14:50:15+00:00

Your attitude is awful. You’re going in there with the mindset that you have to bang out every chick in the first date or it’s a complete failure and she has no interest. You’ve read too much TRP if you think that that’s going to happen every time. Yes, if you’re a 10/10 and have amazing game then it’s possible to get close to that but most of us just aren’t. Work to get as close to that as possible but setting these expectations on a date is probably throwing off your game and girls can smell it when you’re just trying to have sex with them. Switch your mindset to that you’re just going wherever with this chick to HAVE FUN. Focus on laughing and having a good time and if all goes well and the kino is working then go in for the kiss when you get a chance (which now this you should be able to do every first date or she isn’t that into you) and read the kiss to see if she’s trying to go home with you. Not every girl will sleep with you on the first date. And even if they would’ve if you were “alpha” enough, and didn’t, it doesn’t mean they aren’t interested, it just means you didn’t fully convince them yet and a second date could seal the deal.

martianartisan · 2018-02-19T13:07:26+00:00

The first one, was looking for a serious relationship

That sounds like bullshit. You should have treated it as a shit test.

The next date was weird, she was all over me, even from texts she basically implied that she will sleep with me, even kissed me but when I asked her to come back to my place she refused

Sounds like you didn't raise enough sexual tension. Also no plausible deniability.

The way I see it if she does not sleep with you on the first time you meet in person she is most probably not interested in you

That's because your game isn't on point. You have to raise sexual tension to the point where she'll fuck you anywhere. I think you should practice more kino/escalation.

RylanBlackwood · 2018-02-19T13:04:09+00:00

Mate you're damaging your chances. Don't just fuck off a girl straight away because she won't fuck on a first date. Some women are just extremely adamant on not doing it because they don't want people thinking she's a slut. And women know how much blokes kiss and tell haha.

Title	I keep losing potential plate from the first date
Author	iwanttodiequick
Upvotes	3
Comments	11
Date	February 19, 2018 9:21 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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