A bit about me Well so basically, I am 5'10, average faced, well dressed, skinny, but lifting, 19 years old guy and thankfully I have never been a social outcast(altough I am a bit weird) and have had a lot of friends, aquintances and even a few girl experiences, saddly not as much as I crave. Generally people tend to like me. I also do not remember being blue pill ever since I found manosphere very early.

Ze questione Lately I have been obsessing over my insecurities and started wondering if there actually is hope for me to get at least 2 normal looking plates that would not take too much maintenence effort on my part? I mean do I have to get jacked(already working on it) and get plastic surgery to get girls turned on? Is having an alpha outlook and body language not enough? Am i wasting my time?

!!I have not been approaching yet tho!! So is there any guy with similar visual parameters to mine that can tell me if what I want to achieve is doable or should I get rich first, and not waste my time catching tail?

PS. Yes, I know that women are a waste of time, but I have not found a way to get my focus of them as my sexdrive is killing me, also I am sick of watching porn, because it makes me feel like a worthless junkie.

Tl;dr Insecure, young male, wondering if I need to look like chad to get laid on a regular. Harsh truth is welcome yo.