It never used to bother me. Every time I had sex has been a one night stand. I wont ever see the girl again, so I didn't care if she enjoyed herself or not.

However, there is this im dating. She keeps texting me with dirty messages becuase I am delaying the 'fuck close'. I want to make her a a plate and see her more. (she is nice to hang out with).

I just dont even know what to do?