I would rather settle down with 1 traditional, virginal girl than "bang" a thousand hot Stacies. Reading and engaging in TRP communities over the years, I sometimes feel like a bit of a minority. Is there a word for this style of thinking?

awayofthought · 2017-01-14T21:18:53+00:00

From an evolution standpoint, no WAY were we supposed to fuck this many girls. Girls were meant to have 1-2 sexual partners AT MOST. Imagine if your girl before you fucked your caveman buddy before she fucked you, and now you're raising his kid? There is a reason why we have a predisposed tendency to hate girls that sleep around so much.

Fucking around is fun, but empty. You start to see the same chicks, the same hookups, the same sad pursuit of happiness. Women have been lied to, but it's not my problem. Every person makes their own decisions and then they have to live with them for the rest of their lives. It truly is what it is.

In regards to your question, whatever works for you man. You think all those RPers who have LTRs are truly happy? Maybe. You think the 50yo RP who has a nice selection of six plates is truly happy? I don't know. The point is you need to do what YOU want to do. Don't do it just because some schmucks on TRP told you to do it.

A man does what he wants in life, so you have to leave this forum behind at some time and decide what works for you.

askmrcia · 2017-01-15T01:15:44+00:00

Honestly OP I tihnk most of us here would prefer one girl over ONS with tinder/bar sluts. Most of us here tried that route and we got burned. Most of us wanted a happy marriage/LTR with kids and we got burned.

Women are forcing us guys to have causual sex and FWBs. Also not many people brag about how much women they bang once they are out of college. No one gives a fuck. So I don't know where you are from, but yea no man gives a fuck if some dude is sleeping around.

My friends know I date a lot of women, but they don't worship me like a god and I don't never brag about it. So keep that in mind.

Me personally OP, I tried and tried the LTR route. Its not for me. I never cheated or disrespected any woman. Women (my last two exs) would leave me just because they are bored. No warning or anything. They just leave. Why would I want to keep pursing a LTR where women can just leave because they feel like it?

So now I do causal sex and FWBs. Its the only way and to be honest its the best way. Point is I see where you are coming from, but keep in mind nearly every user here is all for causal sex because that's the world that women and feminism made us do.

haveagoodlaugh · 2017-01-14T20:53:42+00:00

well it's probably the easiest time in human history for guys to get laid.

girls are very easy (pussy is basically free), and our competition is about as low as it gets.

it's understandable that getting laid a lot nowadays won't do as much for you - knowing how easy it is.

a lot of guys get into TRP because they couldn't/can't get laid. they pedestalized pussy to the point where their measure of success is in their bed post notches. it's understandable that these guys would focus more so on the sexual/pickup aspects of TRP.

i never really had problems with girls. i got interested in TRP for the psychological/AWALT aspects. i'm sure there are others here like that as well.

TRP is just a collection of knowledge/tools. you can use it however you wish.

StoicPower · 2017-01-14T20:15:01+00:00

Is there a word for this style of thinking?

It's called blue pill.

But seriously, you still have an idealization of the "perfect woman" and if you only find "the one" then you can be happy and never worry again.

Life isn't binary. Most women fall in between the spectrum of Nun<---->Kim Kardashian.

You gotta accept that you have flaws and the women you get involved with, do too. There are no unicorns, man or woman.

You don't have to fuck a ton of women and chase ONSs. For a lot of guys it helps them keep their mindset right and develop their game.

You might be best suited for casual dating. Take women you think are interesting on dates and when one meets your standard you can choose to get serious.

ashaw7 · 2017-01-15T06:42:09+00:00

I think that the MGTOW community feels similar to you. Reading through their forums, there are those men who respect traditional women who can be faithful to their man. The reason MGTOW choose to pump and dump or avoid women altogether is that in the event she decides to divorce you, the family court system and society will fall in her side and they see the risk as too great. My advice if you want such a woman is join a traditional community where hypergamy will mean being ostracized, such as mormons or hasidic jews. I personally could never stand to live in such a community.

anotherswingingdick · 2017-01-15T07:44:42+00:00

there's nothing wrong with wanting a hammer.

What's laughable is thinking you can get one at the wrench store.

I was not cut out to be Amish.... but I admire them for sticking to their guns.

Go be Amish if that's what will make you happiest. I'm not joking.

BlackJ1 · 2017-01-15T07:47:39+00:00

I'm in the same point as you OP. A lifestyle of going around gaming and fucking random women is simply something I don't want. I prefer to have sex with only one or few women I am serious with.

I don't know what the fuck the user /u/vandaalen is smoking, but he needs to pull his head out his ass and realize that not every "red piller" wants to live like that. I don't deny AWALT nor do I pedestalize women.

vandaalen · 2017-01-14T19:53:26+00:00

So... how many plates did you have all in all before you came to that conclusion?

Tekbiker · 2017-01-15T19:07:18+00:00

Cherry popping daddies. ~nuff said

RedSwami · 2017-01-15T04:04:05+00:00

Blue pill

sonder_one · 2017-01-15T04:55:56+00:00

The word you're looking for is "delusional."

You can theoretically end up married for 60 years, but it won't be as wonderful as you imagine. Women are people, not angels. People who are smaller, weaker, and more emotion-ruled than men.

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