Im becoming what i hate

jb_trp · 2016-09-02T21:30:41+00:00

You're not "using her." She's offering to do these things because she wants to do them. You're doing these things because you want to do them too. You're both getting what you want out of life. Might as well enjoy it.

Retspihi · 2016-09-02T21:01:59+00:00

Man, take this candy ass shit to your school

JvSOUL · 2016-09-02T23:27:13+00:00

Lmao. Stop whining you Lil bitch and get your Dick sucked BOI

FlamingCucumber · 2016-09-02T21:09:37+00:00

So you're getting your dick sucked by a girl... The only problem I'm detecting is the fact that you've arranged it in a toilet? Whatever the fuck that's about..

You seem distressed over the fact that you're "using" this girl for your own sexual gratification. Not a problem - this is because of the last 17 years of blue pill, disney's-always-right brainwashing you've experienced. That's what we're here to do. The red pill sands the rough, blue pill frame you're currently encased to reveal the smooth son of a bitch you were always meant to become.

Go read the sidebar. In particular "The Rational Male" and "No More Mr Nice Guy". You need to get away from the thinking that "if I'm not making a commitment to this girl then any sexual favours I receive is automatically me manipulating and extorting her" - she is doing this complete of her own free will. Truth is she's going to suck someone's dick so it may as well be yours.

It doesn't make you a bad person to have casual sex with girls with no chance of a relationship. It just means you have your priorities straight and a girl isn't one of them. Make this clear from the get go. No I'm not saying to tell her "all I want from you is to blow me till I bust then you're dead to me" instead let her understand you're a man with options, hobbies and your time is valuable to, and currently, although you enjoy spending time with her, you are unable to make any form of commitment to her and if she's not on the same page then she's free to walk.

There will always be other woman. And there will always be chads pumping and dumping them. Whilst you don't need to make it your life's mission to break as many hearts and play as many girls as humanly possible, you must internalise the fact that good, moral sex isn't only attainable via a committed relationship, and you're no bad person for partaking in it.

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2016-09-03T00:35:17+00:00

I think the person who is getting used here is you, not the other way around.

heartwotroleyou · 2016-09-02T22:28:53+00:00

Hey man, Think about it like this. She said she sucks real good, so obviously she's had a few dicks in her mouth before. Do you really think she was in love with those guys? Probably not. This isn't going to be a meaningful romantic experience for her, so don't worry about it.

Whatever you do, don't tell her you love her though, that is not cool. Just tell her you want to have fun and if she is still willing to do it, then do what any other guy would do.

FlamingCucumber · 2016-09-02T21:49:50+00:00

Drive around, find some quiet spots - practically everywhere is quiet enough at like 2am. Just keep the doors locked.

Peter_B_Long · 2016-09-02T22:44:33+00:00

If she wants your dick give her your dick. I used to be 'best friends' with this one chick in high school. We would flirt mildly and we got along. Around our graduation we took ecstacy for our grad night and we made out all night in front of our whole senior class. A week after that we went to a friends party and had a few beers and I put her in the back seat of my moms car and started making out. Until she finally knew for sure where it was going, she told me with my dick in her hand that she was on her period and that she wanted to fuck but I had to wait a few days.

This girl was fucking hot. Huge tits, flat belly, nice ass, pretty smile, long hair. The whole enchilada. My pathetic blue as fuck pill brain in the past convinced me that it would be better if we remained friends because 'we were so alike' and we were 'best friends'. I told her that we shouldn't have sex because I valued our friendship. That probably dried up her dripping wet vag faster than an ice cube in lava.

4 years later, guess who I haven't talked to in over a year? Guess who 'keeps forgetting to reply to my messages'. Guess who now lives with her boyfriend who gets to ram his dick in her every night?

This girl who 'loves you' doesn't love you. She wants your dick. That's it. She's not gonna give a fuck about how nice of a guy you are for not letting her get on her knees for you when she's getting deep throated by the next guy.

SoRedSuchAlpha · 2016-09-03T03:36:39+00:00

Okay, well, as the voice of adult reason here: if she has already said she loves you and you know you have zero interest in being her boyfriend then this is a bad idea. When you bail, she could get angry or desperate and cause all kinds of drama. Being stalked is not fun. Also, you are using her, and it is a tiny bit unethical. To me, it's just not worth it for a blowjob.

Then again, it wouldn't be my first blowjob. In your position I can't honestly say I'd turn it down. She approached you, she offered it freely, and it's scheduled in advance, so she's under no pressure and has plenty of chances to back out. As long as you don't make false promises, I'd say you're not quite a saint, but ethically in the clear.

Also if you're at all interested if her obviously go for it. Even if you think you probably wouldn't date her, if you honestly think there's a chance, give her a chance.

SexySmexxy · 2016-09-03T10:44:01+00:00

There's no reason you have to fuck or get a bj from any particular girl.

If you don't like something about the situation change it. Be it the girl, the location, the sexual act etc.

There's always a way out, find it.

That's the true red pill philosophy. HOWEVER

If you're a pussy and you've been given a free blowjob out of the blue, I'd recommend you take it since you probably won't be sexually active in the near future if you cut her out.

Title	Im becoming what i hate
Author	UniversalFapture
Upvotes	0
Comments	32
Date	September 2, 2016 8:56 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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