I'm going insane the more I read

88Will88 · 2017-03-26T01:21:40+00:00

You are only looking at the bad side, not the good side. If you want to be loved, get a dog or have kids. Women can love you, but it has a use by date, humans are not monogamous. It is never too late to make friends. You need to be more open to friendship and other people. You got off on the wrong foot with your parents (their fault) so you mistakenly think everyone is incapable of decent behaviour. It starts with you, treat people well and more often than not, they reciprocate. Sorry you had a rough upbringing, one of my friends told me "it is never too late to start having a happy childhood".

asktrpd · 2017-03-26T01:31:04+00:00

You have a terrible attitude/outlook on life. RP teaches you how the world is and gives you the tools you need to navigate it. Ultimately these tools(gym, bettering yourself in general) should give you a positive attitude, confidence, and charisma. You've got too bleed of an outlook on things

Edit: Also, you're just thinking too much and reading this sub too much. Make things simple and adopt a good, positive attitude and work on yourself. The law of attraction will carry you from there....

No_senses · 2017-03-26T01:42:48+00:00

You're thinking of it negatively. Think about it like this: "who you are" has been shaped by a society that preaches a lifestyle/mindset that ultimately sets men up for failure. You have found a community dedicated to changing that. It's not about putting up an illusion, its about becoming a person that doesn't end up broken by modern society's philosophy.

MrB0gus · 2017-03-26T01:21:41+00:00

The truth is only hard if you expect fantasy. Once you see life how it is an accept it, it's really not bad. It takes a while, but you'll get there.

It's too late to make friends if you didn't make them in your childhood and even they can't help you.

I don't know where you got this from. Sure, it's easier to make friends during childhood, but I've made some of my best friends later in life.

Docbear64 · 2017-03-26T03:03:33+00:00

There's not much I enjoy about the Fast and the furious movies but one thing I always admired about them was the idea that family is much bigger than biology . The people you love and who love you are family .

You're looking at what sounds like a pretty hard upbringing where the family you had was shitty and abusive . If you haven't had much attention from women or had any good friends then I can get how after reading TRP you can feel very very alone in the world .

The cold truth is maybe you come form nothing , you don't come fro ma circle of love and trust and therefore if you want to fix that gaping hole in your life then you have to create that circle . Now this won't be easy , there are lots of shitty people out there but there are also good people too . No a woman won't love you just because , she'll love your strength , your influence, your leadership, but she won't be in love with you as a sack of flesh .

the unfortunate truth is that if you want a family to care about if you want a group of people you can trust and love you'll probably have to build it yourself . Again it's not going to be easy because shitty people , shitty women , are everywhere .

However you can't even begin to start to build a life and circle around you until you look in the mirror and decide to move your life and focus into a direction that will lead to a better place.

Life is hard, and unfortunately your life and childhood sounds more broken than most , but it doesn't mean that you can't build a life that's far removed from your abusive childhood. It's just not magic though.

Billee_Boyee · 2017-03-26T11:05:36+00:00

You inherited nothing. You were born to nobodies. The universe does not care if you, or humanity lives or dies.

This means whatever you create, whatever you build, whatever you become, is yours and yours alone.

Andrew54321 · 2017-03-27T02:53:23+00:00

There is an expiration date on blamimg your parents for your thinking. It's the exact day you learned you can control your thoughts.

memesogny · 2017-03-26T02:19:01+00:00

Find contentment in solitude or buy a dog.

Title	I'm going insane the more I read
Author	sumethreuaweiei
Upvotes	3
Comments	9
Date	March 26, 2017 1:01 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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