I'm having real trouble relating to/accepting/understanding Plate Theory

secret_barber · 2015-10-15T13:34:53+00:00

Anyone can spin plates. Really, all we're talking about is non-exclusive dating ...which is how all romantic relationships begin. As long as your SMV is above the girl's, they will spin and spin and spin. It is at the point where the girl demands exclusivity that the true test (for the man) comes into play. If you want to continue spinning plates, you have to be willing to let plates drop by refusing exclusivity.

ckp2906 · 2015-10-15T11:59:42+00:00

You've got it somewhat right. Many RP theories is guidelines. Don't expect all the criteria to be fulfilled. I usually have 2-4 plates, but for me the sex is also about them and their pleasure.

The whole point is, i do it because I want to.

Altso, if i enjoy her company or i might want tofuck her in the morning, i let her stay if it's late.

About the sex acts and time of the meeting etc, it's all about your SMV. If you can't get any of these criterias, re-evaluate your SMV

JohnWeek · 2015-10-15T13:38:06+00:00

Only top men can plate top women. The plate's SMV is usually lower than the player's SMV, unless he has a master at game.

Have you never seen this IRL? Most people call this friends with benefits.

Improve your SMV and you game and you'll be able to do it. But not with the hottest women.

M3_Drifter · 2015-10-15T14:04:33+00:00

I understand a plate to be:

A plate is someone with whom you have sex without exclusivity or commitment. Any "rules" beyond that is up to yourself.

Is fucked with little to no regard for her pleasure, it's all "about you"

When I started worrying less about her pleasure was when I became good at sex. Sounds counterintuitive, but it's the truth.

Will do sex stuff she doesn't do with others.

Maybe, maybe not. Does it matter as long as she does the things you want?

Accepts you see other women (she may or may not see other guys)

It's not so much that a plate necessarily accepts outright that there are other women, it's that there is no commitment given (shown by the activities done together, if not explicitly stated), so she has no reasonable expectation of exclusivity. If she doesn't like it, she's free to find someone else.

Do the 20% that rp'ers say they are a part of consist entirely of the types of people I have listed above?

No. And yes. Everything is a spectrum. Less than 20% of the population are rich/athletic/celebrity/beautiful/gangster. If you are more athletic than the bottom 80%, better dressed than the bottom 80%, have more money than the bottom 80%, have more game than the bottom 80%, then you will do quite well.

everythingisthrown · 2015-10-15T14:45:35+00:00

I'm a non popular high school student with plates. It's not hard, honestly with a bit of experience it's pretty easy.

FrameWalker · 2015-10-15T17:56:07+00:00

Spinning plates is very common. Almost all girls do it, and most guys do too, especially in big cities and college environments.

Most girls I meet have already been spun. They either are cool with it, or try really hard to fight it (and yet still fail half the time).

The only people who don't spin plates are the bottom 70% of men. Those who didn't know it was possible, and gave away their commitment too freely.

HomunculusEmeritus · 2015-10-15T12:59:04+00:00

You could try integrating into your life what the sidebar recommends at trp. You know, the things that actually improve yourself and therefore your outlook. Get some success for yourself on the activities that are just about you. They're in the sidebar.

"it's all about you" doesn't exclude her pleasure... Do you think she's there to fuck you because you want it, or because she wants it?

There aren't enough rich or handsome or celebrities etc. to go around. So many guys don't try, so just improving to be that much better than them gets you there.

Title	I'm having real trouble relating to/accepting/understanding Plate Theory
Author	incognitomamsito
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Date	October 15, 2015 11:40 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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