I'm using tinder lately, and my messages are straight to the point. I'll get the number with few fluff messages. Text her and go straight to making plans. I make it a point that 'if the chemistry is right, we'll head to my place to watch a movie.' Logistics is 99% not a problem for me as I'm a block away from the bar/coffee shop I frequent for dates. Basically, I'm looking to have a hook up and make it go as smooth as possible.

During coffee dates I'm not as touchy because its kind of annoying being touchy face to face. With the bar, I'm a lot more touchy as its easier side by side. Anyways, here are examples of 4 fail dates and 2 successful date all from tinder:

1 loss: white brunette thickish, smelled good, not interesting, boring, I was not feeling it too much. Regardless, I walked her to my place to 'chill' and we made out. But she said she had to go and just left. I assumed she had her own problems. Never talked again.

2 loss: short white chick, payed for my drinks, let me touch her damn near everywhere but she had this weird vibe throughout the date. Walked her straight to my place but she magically had to go somewhere all of the sudden. Kissed her bye, never talked again.

3 win: thick ass black chick at coffee shop. Mostly talked with minimal touching except when asking about her jewelry, gym, activities, blah blah (arms, hands.) Laughed at my jokes, general interest, payed for my coffee. Went straight to my place and fucked each others brains out. Never talked again :)

4 win: White skinny brunette, talked and got a little touchy with arm and legs next to her at this coffee joint. She made it clear on text she wasn't looking for anything serious. Laughed at my jokes blah blah. Got to my place, some slight lmr but fucked like rabbits. Current fuck buddy :)

5 loss: white short haired brunette today. We went for coffee, minimal touching, talked a bit, she seemed on the fence throughout our whole interaction. Got to my place, wouldn't sit next to me nor kiss me because she felt uncomfortable. I jokingly' called her a weirdo and I kicked her out shortly afterwards as she kept saying she had to go soon.

6 loss: white average chick, coffee, got a little touchy with her arms, hand, hair, and leg, asked her questions, joked about her shyness, she was nervous but she seemed interested. Walked to my place but had to go magically. Texted her a couple days later, no response.

Other things to note: My pics are okay and are a fair representation of me and they were good enough for them to meet me. Generally, my vibe is more to have fun and find out about them but I'm always trying to push the interaction forward (my place to fuck.) Most times, the girls that I failed with tended to be an awkward conversation, even with my doing most of the talking. Most of what I do is based on GLL. ie: look good, be able to hold some form of a conversation, and touch to get intentions across. I'm skinny but my style is not bad. I currently work out and am gaining weight but its going to be a long while. My hair is awkward stage but I put pics up on my tinder showing that.

With all of that line of text said. I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong on the dates that I'm losing on. Its mostly preached on here and on GLL that its a numbers game, especially if its approaching on the street. But what about on tinder? The girls that I match with and go on dates with are obviously attracted enough. So, is this more on me and me fucking up? Tell me whats going on here please.