I made myself look bad this past weekend. Girl was giving me signals. I got a little handsy. Prob to much tbh. I get aggressive when I drink.

She cried wolf.

I'm exiled from group. One of my buddies has been telling me everyone is freaking out... but honestly it wasn't bad. We were in a car for 10 minutes on our way to get pancakes at 3am. Besides that she was by me all night.

So I'm just laying low. I don't want to risk a fucking meeting with the cops. I don't think she'll take it that far... it'd be ludicrous. But I'm playing it safe. I know the stats.

My question is how can I avoid being aggressive with women? I escalate to fast. I don't build comfort. If you have tips on that I'd be all ears.

I need to fix this bad behavior on my end and am focusing on that. I feel ashamed for being "that guy."