In LTRs, is it dump or be dumped, basically?

mountainbiker178 · 2019-07-03T15:58:21+00:00

Eventually, all LTRs end, either by someone dying or someone leaving.

denchbench666 · 2019-07-03T16:04:37+00:00

Well, it is always advantageous to be the one that's doing the dumping, because it keeps you in control, rather than if the other person were to dump you. If you are in a relationship that you are not feeling fulfilled on, being disrespected or that you want out of, never feel bad to put yourself first and the woman second, because you are a man who stands by his honour, his principles and you are the prize!

TyroneTheDriver · 2019-07-03T15:08:32+00:00

Not understanding the question.

Do most relationships fail? Yes. Overwhelmingly. Does that mean they cant be great? No of course not. Can you eventually find an LTR that lasts "forever" sure, probably, if youre lucky and if thats what you want.

YungRichKid · 2019-07-03T16:34:00+00:00

That’s exactly how it is, used to still have some simp qualities and had failed some shit tests in my LTR and it worked out exactly how I foresaw it, let myself get dumped to finally reach a realization, always aim to be the one that dumps but being dumped can also be a good thing sometimes for someone ignorant to the bigger picture

throwitdownman · 2019-07-03T18:57:33+00:00

If you’re young, and you are misguidedly against plating women, expect a dump or be dumped lifestyle.

If you know what you want, and she follows and supports what you want (captain/first mate), then you can apply some higher level thinking. But honestly for most, just having a dumped or be dumped mentality saves you a lot of trouble.

[deleted] · 2019-07-03T19:25:07+00:00

Always at least have a contingency plan, or don’t grow too attached. This isn’t a traditional and close knit world. This is the world of global competition and anonymity. You’ve got your family, and your kids. Everyone else is impermanent.

addwater · 2019-07-04T03:35:38+00:00

No,

It's either dump her once she's no longer LTR material / crosses a boundary or have her lose respect and start treating you poorly / eventually cheat on you while never actually having the balls to end the relationship herself

Title	In LTRs, is it dump or be dumped, basically?
Author	throwawaytrpguy
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Date	July 3, 2019 2:58 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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