A new problem in LTR (2 years). We are both 20 years old and started college 3 days ago. Today, she followed three men from college on instagram and after that she liked a picture of one of them.

We got into a fight and she told me she was not like me, she wanted to hang out and meet friends. She told me that she could do whatever she wants and that I did not need to follow who she was following and liking.

She keeps saying that I shouldn't be jealous, but she drives me to do it with her actions. I think she wants attention and wants as many orbiters around as possible, she's an extrovert and loves being in the spotlight. Is it a crucial red flag to dump her?