Is making myself physically attractive enough to get laid?

FereallyRed · 2019-03-11T18:31:18+00:00

Your BMI is 34. That's WELL into the obese range.

This is by far your biggest issue.

You'll have enough on your plate just hitting the gym and getting your diet in check.

That's the only free advice I'll give you. Get reading, take some agency for your own life.

Stop wish for a "happy life." It's an ephemeral dream. Set a goal.

You're lazy.

BusterVadge · 2019-03-11T19:07:13+00:00

Becoming muscular and well styled is going to give you the biggest boost out of anything.

You can pull girls with really great game like rsdtyler, but it's going to be 100x harder than just putting in the work to become a better man.

If you want stellar success you have to do a few things:

Become muscular
Dress well
Cultivate a great personality
Have a frame made out of steel
Have bulletproof confidence
Don't give a fuck

These things take time, but if you read the sidebar and do the things that other men have done to get there, you will see success during your journey. Remember that success leaves clues.... So do the things that the men here have suggested because they work.

MattyAnon · 2019-03-11T19:42:33+00:00

Is making myself physically attractive enough to get laid?

No, you also need to meet girls.

I'm 5'10'' and 240 lbs.

You are very, very fat. VERY fat. Unless that's more muscle than The Rock, you are a fatty at the moment.

If I just lose the weight and become muscular is it enough or do I need more? I'm just tired of all the ghosting and failed attempts, I just want to be a happy man.

You're tall enough. Lose ALL the excess weight, gain what muscle you can and you'll find that women go from ghosting you to at least giving you a chance.

Yes it's worth it, yes it will work, yes there's more to it than the fat and muscle but that will get you 80% of the way there and the rest won't take long.

MaximumPossible · 2019-03-11T18:51:51+00:00

Getting yourself in shape physically is the number one as everyone else has said.

But close second is learning game and developing your mission, not to get laid but for yourself. Getting laid will come part of the package after.

sexykavu · 2019-03-11T20:03:47+00:00

Yeah, unless you're an absolute retard socially, your biggest barrier is your weight. Get that in check and you'll be able to pull much more successfully. It's not that you coudnl't pull now, but it's gonna take a lot more work for far less benefit than you could otherwise.

The amount of game required to get a woman is directly proportional to your looks imho

Mr_Badass · 2019-03-12T04:17:42+00:00

Get to 195 and then worry about getting laid. Should take you a few months.

Title	Is making myself physically attractive enough to get laid?
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Date	March 11, 2019 6:25 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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