Is starting off texts with things like "Hey gorgeous" or "Hey beautiful" good or bad?

OmLaLa · 2016-05-11T21:35:44+00:00

Giving random undeserved compliments is like donating money and expecting something in return.

Never give away free validation.

NicCageForPresident · 2016-05-12T03:22:49+00:00

Yeah you can totally do it. Fuck TRP I do that shit all the time.

ecosci · 2016-05-15T02:57:25+00:00

Nothing wrong with it if your alpha it shows confidence now if your beta its needy, look her in the eyes when telling her anyway but dont expect anything after she will have tingles if shes attracted.Tell her to send a sexy selfy.

oglowkey · 2016-05-11T13:09:22+00:00

I never compliment things that women have no control over. If a girl is fishing for compliments I pull her aside say,"If you didn't look good I wouldn't be with you right now."

Borsao66 · 2016-05-11T12:31:49+00:00

Those kind of comments are validation which is what you DON'T want to lead with. I never start complimenting until she's earned it via her actions towards me.

If you validate her and she hasn't done anything to earn it, you run a high risk of being friendzoned and turned into a beta orbiter. Why should she proverbally put out and allow you access to her sexuality when you are charging up her feelz for free?

Remember, phones are for setting up meets, not exchanging information or licking her ass.

fnordsnord · 2016-05-11T17:38:41+00:00

Bad.

First - don't game via text. It gives ALL advantage to her and none to you. Game in person.

Second - since you're going to ignore the first, never lead with a compliment to a woman's beauty. She gets those ALL the time if she's remotely hot. You might as well wave a flag that says "I'm a thirsty incel that you should IMMEDIATELY friend-zone."

trp_ocd · 2016-05-11T17:52:15+00:00

Compliments should be over the top, unless it's a known pet name.

Stop with "cutie, georgeous, booboo bear, etc ".

Sup sexy girl, loving that pic of your dick sucking lips. <---

Title	Is starting off texts with things like "Hey gorgeous" or "Hey beautiful" good or bad?
Author	QPRCHOC
Upvotes	0
Comments	10
Date	May 11, 2016 10:39 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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