Hey,

So here’s the situation. Im a university graduate. I don’t have a professional career right now.

I live in an apartment in the city by myself. To support myself the only job I’ve been able to do is food delivery, which basically I’m having to do full time to get by. I make around $75k/yr (AUD). I have some savings, I’ve been in the gym every day, getting a better physique. I’ve also been working on a side project but it’s not at the point where I can rely on that for income.

Anyway, it’s a situation where I don’t really want to tell women what I do and I kind of get the feeling I should have a better job in terms of status (I.e. something related to field of study) before I even bother. However I’m not sure if this is somewhat incel mentality and I should approach anyway and just go for it, and I’m just on my journey.

Or should I just stfu and focus on fixing my situation and having a really nice job and get offline? Also been working hard at eliminating video games and things of that nature although I spend too much idle time on Reddit instead of reading books.