Is there too much beta in this?

seattleron · 2017-08-02T15:59:11+00:00

Hell no, that's great. The reason she only gives snippets is because she thinks you think like her, and she doesn't want to seem beta to you so she never really truly reveals anything to you. These kind of 100% honesty moments are rare, but post coitus is usually where they happen.

Sounds like you have her right where you want her, and she wants to be. You are alpha in her eyes. You have to make a woman think she can do no better than you, and it seems like you have.

When she does this, reward her with a small but genuine compliment. Make them infrequent, unpredictable, and rewards for something like this.

Good job, mate. LTR's in the modern west are nigh impossible, so just keep doing what you're doing.

Hmonte1 · 2017-08-02T15:19:31+00:00

No man is 100% alpha in all ways at all times. Just make sure you balance it out... be cocky /confident... tease her insecurities in a playful way to let her know you see her flaws and she aint perfect but you dig her enough to let her be your ltr.

Like if she says "i feel like i can be my dorky self around you" id say something like "dont be too dorky i dont wanna have to make fun of you" or something to let her know you are not some beta orbiter

walawalawa · 2017-08-02T23:53:35+00:00

how you make me laugh, how I feel like I can open up around you, your body, how you fuck me, how my friends like you, I love you, I feel confident around you, I can let out my dorky side with you"

You're misreading her words. All women WANT a guy who displays both alpha and beta qualities....they just don't want you to be beta. This paradox is one you have to manage.

Women always say they want something and then push it away when they get it.

Also context is important. After banging her she's going to be feeling that rush of emotion so it's her way of "feeling" the moment.

Just keep doing what you're doing.

imn0tg00d · 2017-08-02T21:09:36+00:00

Dude stop worrying about being alpha or beta. Obsessing over it is just dumb. Do what you want and don't give a fuck. I think its time yet again for another post about the definitions of alpha and beta.

quicklogaccount · 2017-08-02T16:15:04+00:00

On itself it's nothing but a good sign, she's comfortable.

Title	Is there too much beta in this?
Author	jend95
Upvotes	5
Comments	8
Date	August 2, 2017 3:06 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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