so this girl ive been casually seeing invited me to come over last night for a fuck. i ask what time and she pretty much says whenever as shes gotta little homework and cleaning to do and gets off work at 2pm. i say yeah ill let you know when im coming over.

so 7pm rolls around and i start to get ready to go over. i wanted to get over there early cause i had been up early for work and have work early the next morning. as im headed toward the door at 730 i get a txt from her saying "hey im out with so and so dont know what time you were wanting to come through but ill be back soon" i tell her, im literally about to walk out the door. " she says "yea sorry for the mix up but ill let you know when i get home. that alrite?"

i just radio silence after that and decide to read and pass out. i wake up to a txt sent at 9 saying "sorry again for the mix up. im home if you still wanna come over." and, "did you still want to come over or wha? im going for a bike ride if not." at 1130. i havnt contacted her since then.

my question is, is when she txts me back (and she will) asking me if i want to hang out, would replying with, "cant. ive already made plans tonight and i cant blow them off", be too catty?

i like this girl, not enough to take her shit but enough to fuck her some more and let her rub my back on deadlift days. shit, she even rubs my feet and is completely submissive in the sack. im just worried if i take this approach ill appear childish. maybe im answering my own question. so how would you take the high road on this?

TL;DR:girl blew me off after she initiated plans. i radio silence. shell eventually initiate plans again. would responding with "cant. ive already made plans tonight and cant blow them off" be too catty/childish?