Is this what would be considered a shit test?

SpinPlates · 2015-03-17T05:32:39+00:00

Was her trying to be cool in front of her friends. Your response was perfect. Not a real shit test, just her snapping at you.
Is her being a cunt, you shouldn't have even replied after the "I fell asleep" reply from her....But also you shouldn't really be asking plates for rides from the pub. Take a cab or call a male friend

stickfiguresk · 2015-03-17T05:35:55+00:00

1st: yes, did fine. The power was in your court.

2nd was you shit testing her and she A&A'd you, where you deflected. You both kinda won; she doesn't give a fuck you were rideless, and she's a bitch. I wouldn't see it favorably, but you didn't lose per say.

mindfucks · 2015-03-17T05:38:12+00:00

Number one was great.

Number two should have been met with silence. Not happy faces.

AlphaAsFAQ · 2015-03-17T05:42:34+00:00

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midnightbean · 2015-03-17T06:12:56+00:00

Been there...the girls arent shit testing theyre just not interested.

Sometimes girls do fall asleep. By joking about like you did you put her in a taking care of you frame. You dont die, youre a man. Men die and take it like a man, women have their dark responsibilities but a mans is to deal with his shit.

Sounds small but life is comprised of the small. Conversations can be impressive, boring, or weird with just a few words.

The response to the first still comes off beta. Alpha response is to not give a fuck. You dont have to prove yourself to her in that moment, its your walk and talk that shows your alpha. You could chuckle mildly and say "well i just dont wanna fail like you". The way you worded your response was too overbearing and bitter sounding.

midnightbean · 2015-03-17T06:20:43+00:00

To say it better your response was too specific. If thats her attitude she doesnt deserve your serious consideration or instruction. The difference is making a blow off comment versus a defensive one.

cheesepythons · 2015-03-17T06:36:06+00:00

1st response was OK, 2nd was needy. You tried to shit test her and she blew you off, I can't see this becoming a plate for you as you are clearly not on her radar. You probably missed the boat when you let the white knight take ownership. Just go silent and work on other things, if there was any interest she will come back around but I think you need to move forward.

iSnORtcHuNkz69 · 2015-03-17T17:41:54+00:00

She's a heartless woman. You don't need that in your life or for your future kids. She's the type to hit it and quit it.

Title	Is this what would be considered a shit test?
Author	awakefinally
Upvotes	2
Comments	16
Date	March 17, 2015 5:14 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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