So I play in a trio and the drummer gets all the female attention. He's a very good drummer and also sings most of our songs and is very animated, we're also good friends. I'm a very well groomed/dressed, good shape, awesome guitarist. I'm not bragging but I get compliments at every gig on my playing but only from guys.

He's noticed by girls even before they know he's in the band. If he shows up early with no equipment and just walks around he gets talked to. He'll even get remarks during sound check. We haven't even started playing yet. One time I went to the bar to get a drink and 2 girls were looking at him and said "oh look, he's in the band." I mean wtf? What am I dealing with here? He's also married.

What do I do?