“Let’s see” to being asked out

mallardcove · 2019-01-24T02:41:26+00:00

There are dozens of guys she has lining up to hang out with her over the weekend and you are about #4 or #5 in the pecking order and she is waiting to see if Chad, Tyrone or Brad is going to make time for her instead. You're her backup plan

soundnpound · 2019-01-24T02:44:59+00:00

It's a shit test. She won't respect you if you're able to meet her anytime during the weekend and will assume you don't have anything going on. She will then feel like she's above you and in control as this essentially shows she's the best you can get at the moment.

Also don't try and pressure her as again, that will give her the control by making her feel like you're too eager for her. Just say, "no worries, another time maybe"

jakethesnake5000 · 2019-01-24T02:39:33+00:00

So you said you were free Friday and now she knows you are free Saturday.... what kind of high value man doesn’t have shit going on all weekend?

Next time, say Friday only. If she tries to reschedule say you are doing something fun and it will have to be some other time.

FereallyRed · 2019-01-24T04:27:46+00:00

The Law of “Fuck Yes or No” states that when you want to get involved with someone new, in whatever capacity, they must inspire you to say “Fuck Yes” in order for you to proceed with them.

The Law of “Fuck Yes or No” also states that when you want to get involved with someone new, in whatever capacity, THEY must respond with a “Fuck Yes” in order for you to proceed with them.

Markmanson article here.

SICFJC · 2019-01-24T02:46:40+00:00

Don't tell her to pick. That's beta behavior.
You pick. If she's there, she's there.

mrmaldoror · 2019-01-24T02:46:13+00:00

I never schedule the weekends, that is my fun time. Monday/Tuesdays are my date/sex/hookup nights.

PolesWithGoals · 2019-01-24T04:10:30+00:00

She’s playing games with you be careful

Ballosaurus · 2019-01-24T02:40:57+00:00

Seems like she’s using you for attention.

And you’re here asking how you could give more of it lol

goblinboglin · 2019-01-24T09:31:01+00:00

Let's see seems like a sign of low interest to me.

Stand your ground and go with the "I’m making my plans tonight so pick"

If she doesn't go with your plans at that time, don't give another chances, that would indicate thirsty beta behaviour.

Trust me, you don't want to be the backup plan.

glitterpumas · 2019-01-25T21:35:42+00:00

The way I deal with girls that say "we'll see," "if I'm free," "maybe" or some other bullshit along those lines I just say, seems like you're busy, ill just hit you up some other time, then ill hit her up a few weeks later, if she does the same shit or if she's busy again but doesn't try to offer another time at least, I move on from that girl.

Title	“Let’s see” to being asked out
Author	AntiSharp
Upvotes	5
Comments	22
Date	January 24, 2019 2:35 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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