I found TRP back towards the end of 2013 I believe. I can't remember exactly when but it was towards the beginning of my accounts creation. My boss showed it to me because he thought the sexual strategies discussed here fell in line with the way we behaved with women. Be aggressive. Be aloof and unavailable. Be successful in life first, women will follow.

These were things we already had an understanding of. We had a good complimentary wingman game and did just fine with the ladies. TRP just quantified and validated a lot of things that we already subconsciously understood.

Point being: For the most part, I agree with the basic tenets of TRP philosophy.

Something I've never understood though is the communities obsession over a woman's "number". Top post in TRP right now is basically railing some stupid girl for having 17 partners and not understanding why that freaked her BF out. And well, the vehemency with which TRP's narrative sticks to "MY bitch will be faithful or she's out." It just never made any sense to me. Here we are, stoic motherfuckers who give no fucks, but we bitch and complain about women screwing other dudes. If the whole point of this is to not give a shit what our girls do because we rock at life and don't need them, who cares if they want to fuck other dudes if you enjoy their company? Seems oddly hypocritical to me and dare I say weak. Yes, I said it. I think you are a weak little beta bitch if you can't maintain your levelheadedness and balanced emotions because a girl who you don't really need in your life went and sucked another dick.

It screams "I'm attached to this person, and she hurt me, so I have to cut things off entirely so it doesn't happen again because I'm a sad, broken, shadow of a man who can't possibly survive without knowing that I'm her one and only." weak

Is this really that important to you guys? Seems odd to me. We're here to learn how to fuck as frequently as possible but we point and laugh at the bitches most likely to give it up.

Anyways, to the point of this. I've done some cursory searching and haven't seen it discussed at length. Let's talk about swinging and my recent experiences with it.

My gf and I have been together for 6 some odd years now. She's got smoking hot porn star looks and I'm a solid 6.5 at the least. She's AWALT to the max outside of the fact that she recognizes AWALT and openly admits it. This makes things easier. We spent the first 5 years of our relationship cheating on one another. Sometimes for fun, sometimes for revenge, sometimes because just fuck it, who cares... I'm fucking this slut and don't give a shit if my girl finds out.

I always viewed our ability to maintain a strong, supportive relationship even with all of the infidelity to be pretty cool. I essentially had the freedom to do as I wish, as well as her, and the only consequences were a month or so of fighting and/or heartache. It worked well for us.

About 6 six months ago we both found out that the other had strayed from the confines of our relationship again. I screwed some golf cart driver in Scottsdale during Spring Training, and she banged some rando while I was gone. At this point we sat down and had a discussion.

We both have a hard time keeping our pants on, and despite the fact that we managed to keep our relationship together, the cheating was still a bit painful on both ends. Given that we recognized we were both essentially sluts, we decided to give swinging a try.

It's been the most amazing 6 months of my life. I shit you not. I'm fucking 4-6 new women a month, and fairly frequently two or more at a time. Granted, my girl is fucking other dudes as well, but try as I might, I can't seem to feel any jealousy about it. I'm having too much fun banging these dudes girls. Or drinking a beer with these dudes while our girls bang each other.

It's like having an open FWB relationship. Over the 6 years we've been together we've developed an incredibly strong friendship. We get each other, we laugh at the same jokes, we like the same movies, we approach life in general in the same manner, and now we can fuck together. She helps me game chicks and I don't get jealous if a dude is hitting on her. This shit is fun bros.

To the men of TRP that have experience with swinging: How do you feel it fits within the philosophy? Is it a negative factor in a relationship? Does it help to strengthen it? Let's have a real discussion about this that goes beyond "If your bitch fucks anyone but you, you're not a man."

EDIT: Also, I'm down to answer any questions you may have regarding my experiences. I'm an open book.