Life is in a loop

Jessor69 · 2020-02-24T03:39:35+00:00

18-24 Is rough for a man

No money, no wisdom, no experience, no confidence. But all those things can be built up and are changeable

JimmyHILFIGER · 2020-02-24T00:11:12+00:00

Well yeah you are putting pussy on pedestal, you're making a post about it.

No girls no friends and here you are whining. You care way the fuck too much and it shows, stop being a sensitive bitch, move on.

RingAlmostFuckedMe · 2020-02-24T01:20:15+00:00

I'm 19 same shit everyday. Wake up, work, eat, gym, sleep, repeat. The thing is, what do you expect? Life is hard man, if you aren't rich you'll have to stick to a routine, to a boring life loop. The only way to break the loop is to get enough money to break it.

This being said, stop being a pussy. Life's a ugly dark place, you either learn to survive it or you're doomed.

yeenevenknow · 2020-02-24T01:51:07+00:00

keep hitting the gym hard, go out to parties and meet new people. Also keep working on whatever you are passionate about, and if you dont care about anything then find out what you want in life and work towards it. Women come and go but ur goals should be rock solid

bpdloveoflife · 2020-02-24T02:50:27+00:00

Don't worry about girls. Just focus on every other aspect of your life. The more you focus on girls the less you succeed. When your frame increases you will find girls automatically.

send_it_for_the_boys · 2020-02-24T06:42:52+00:00

Gym, work, study, sleep is a great grind. And dude, expect 0 from tinder girls. If they don't flake on you then it should come as a pleasant surprise. If they're on Tinder you shouldn't take them seriously anyway.

The fact you've got the gym/work/study/sleep grind going at your age means you're going to be a successful man.

Also, I observed I had more success on Tinder after my age began with a 2 (i.e. when I turned 20 I started getting more likes, less girls flaked, etc). So just wait. Put Tinder on the backburner. Get that GPA up high, get an internship in your field, lurk on the Bogleheads forum/subreddit, go to church or whatever your worship house is. Learn to become a strong man.

Edit: and getting sad over women means you care about women too much. Women can smell when you care about them. It's okay to give a fuck/care a little bit, but don't be texting them unprompted unless it's for logistics. That's what is known as "simping."

fartt123 · 2020-02-24T08:50:28+00:00

embrace the routine. money will come bitches will come just be patient and happiness comes from putting in effort in doing things you want to. Things that are not dictated by others.

2020-02-24T02:50:48+00:00

You gotta be a man though. You can do all the self help you want and be a beta bux.

Standgrounding · 2020-02-24T10:53:18+00:00

Lift harder, to the point you go out of gym and can barely walk.

Walk back home like a champ.

Approach.

FereallyRed · 2020-02-24T21:23:30+00:00

Find a side hustle that makes you money, and go try new things. Find a hobby. A sport. Hunt. Wingsuit proximity flying. Scuba. What do you want to do?

KHdominate · 2020-03-03T05:58:45+00:00

Ok? Now where's the real problem.

CjuiedD · 2020-02-24T00:12:24+00:00

Delete Tinder first. And wipe off social media. Find something you're good at, make money from it, and let these bitches come to you.

Nastynatee · 2020-02-24T03:50:43+00:00

Girls as a goal is garbage. Should be a by product and cherry on top. Your 19. Stop whining and Stfu, man up. Study, lift, eat right, volunteer, learn a martial art. Form yourself. Everything else your longing for will come to you by doing these things.

pilot333 · 2020-02-24T04:38:10+00:00

pretty easy fix. 2 things. get higher quality friends and start approaching.

SmurfSC2TW2 · 2020-02-24T06:57:58+00:00

lol 19 yo kids complain about boring routine while having time to post on reddit and worrying about tinder.

Try 29 yo work travel meeting study no sleep. Then report back.

Title	Life is in a loop
Author	CjuiedD
Upvotes	16
Comments	29
Date	February 24, 2020 12:06 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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