I'll keep this as short as possible. We have a kid together, 5 year old. I'm 27, she's 25. We both live at my mothers place.

I've tried to kick her out but to avail. She literally has no place to go. Her own mother doesn't want her back at her place so she's pretty much stuck here. There's little hope she'll move out anytime soon, no college degree and working a retail job especially in NYC. She also does not cook nor clean (lucky me)

I can't move out yet till I save some money so we'll be stuck with each other for at least a year. Luckily I'm not on child support as she always had this "I don't need your money" mindset.

She decided to branch swing to someone else. I'm not going to lie to you, before I discovered TRP I did the typical beta behavior. Anything you can imagine (asking her if she's talking to this guy, if she likes him etc) trust me I feel pathetic when I think about it.

I've been reading TRP ever since we cut ties (2 weeks ago) and have a much better mindset. We had a huge argument 2 days ago once again because I asked her for her mothers number so I can hopefully have her move out. Turned into a SHIT show and she's pretty much going to stay here for a while and so am I.

How would you guys deal with this? I have to see her everyday pretty much. I have this plate I've been fucking here and there but I haven't hit the gym. I also haven't spoken to my ex in 2 days. I figure moving out will be the only ideal solution in this situation.