Okay, so Ive been reflecting a great deal on my experiences of last year with women while i go through uni. I believe i fked up one such opportunity by opening up about some very sensitive personal issues. I only did so because i felt i trusted her enough as she had opened up about her past with me so i felt like she trusted me enough. Heres the problem though, a lot of trp posts say to not open up to women as it kills attraction which is exactly what i experienced. This goes against my reasoning which is that a relationship should be built on trust and if i dont open up when i feel like i need to, i am being deceitful and closed off. Also, shouldnt the relationship in which you are the most intimate also be the most trusting? I guess i need just need some advice on how to figure this out because logic is telling me that intimacy = trust