Lonely

RedKepler · 2019-07-21T09:50:16+00:00

It sucks. I have the same problem.

You've just gotta not mope around on the internet about it and instead make your day interesting and productive. This can be from exercising, chores, working, going out by yourself to somewhere natural etc.

Just don't sit at home and make a habit about feeling sorry for yourself because no one is asking you out, all your gonna do is put yourself deeper into that dark place your trying to escape.

A good way to keep yourself busy is to get your morning routine done, after you wake up, go shower, get dressed, breakfast/exercise, then go and tackle whatever activity you may or may not have planned for the day.

There's nothing I can say to fix it, but I can tell you how to start to.

CorytheWarrior · 2019-07-21T10:33:13+00:00

I bet of you had a lot of money and a business you owned, all your friends who ignore you would be trying to suck your cock. You'd have girls doing the same.

No one gives a shit about you. At all. You get 2 likes on your Facebook photos. One is from your mom and the other is from some fat chick you smashed back in 2018.

You go to a party and feel lonely because again... No one gives a shit about you and you thought a party and drinking would make you feel like you actually have a social life. But what it did was actually expose how much of a loser you are. You have decent social skills but it gets you nowhere because you have no value... Because you are a man with nothing. Welcome to the team bud. I'm 24 and life was the exact same for me when I was 19 back in 2014.

AsianWater · 2019-07-21T09:48:05+00:00

What about your HS friends? I am going into the second year in uni right now and yeah I get you. I wasted too much of my time in an LTR last year. This year I am planning to deep dive into hobbies that I enjoy and can make great friends (such as MT). I will also be living with 2 of my friends as we are renting a flat next year.

Maxim_6996 · 2019-07-21T14:03:08+00:00

Stop asking stupid questions and do whatever the fuck you want to do. It sucks that your life is based on others.

lifeisweirdasfuck · 2019-07-21T15:11:06+00:00

You simply have a weak frame and don't know yourself enough.

If you did, you would be your best friend and would not need anybody else in your life.

You get used to it.

It's normal in the beginning.

When I became redpill aware and started ditching all my old friends I remained completely alone.

Was hard in the beginning but I kept going and now I feel perfectly.

ManlyB860 · 2019-07-21T11:21:22+00:00

Hi, honestly i would give so much to go back in time and be in the same situation. First i would exercise a lot, put myself into hobbies that with skills bring eventually extra cash and social advantages (photography, dancing classes, learn how to build stuff and fix houses/cars, learn how to code and create website about your hobbies or any interest, read a lot...) you have so much time but you must use it wisely to get the most benefits from it, don't be impatient. Take some time to think about what you really want for you life in the future. Also about getting friends, the easiest way in my opinion is to join a group/association with people your age, you will probably build connections with them and this will help. It's easier at your age. For example i joined a pool/snooker association and met really cool dudes. But best is with mixed genders if you want to meet girls as well. Last advice: COLD APPROACH. Good luck buddy

Brushyourteethm8 · 2019-07-21T11:07:21+00:00

Sucks man.

I have dealt with this and it does get better.

OracleofFl · 2019-07-21T13:13:26+00:00

What can you learn from observing the behavior of people with a lot of friends? How does their behavior compare to your own in this regard?

Title	Lonely
Author	Alexander290
Upvotes	12
Comments	39
Date	July 21, 2019 8:59 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/cfx2xi/lonely/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/lonely.246125 https://theredarchive.com/post/246125

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