This happened a few weeks ago. I came over and we got in an argument about me not caring enough. She got real dramatic. We argued, and I basically said I dont care. I guess a really dont but I also said I wasnt like this before her. And she took that as I liked my last GF more than her. I was very Bluepill with my last GF.

I lost frame, but I also think I may have gone to far on the IDGAF side. But I told her im happier now than I ever have been, which is true. I was never truley happy in my last relationship cause I was such a little bitch and hated how I was.

How do I get to a good middle ground and care?