LTR for 1,5 yrs. So me, my friends and I was going out this weekend and I got really drunk and took a cab with some friends and left her alone in town. She got sad about it the day after and here is Where I lost frame, I Said sorry since i didn’t remember but i brushed it off like it was nothing.

Since then ive felt she is distant, I handle it with me backing off and focusing on myself. But today we laid in bed and she starts commenting my face like ”why do you have so many black pores, its not handsome” with a jokingly attitude, not bitchy, and she says ”why do you have so much wax in your ears” and shit like that she never Said before. My response was A&A.

Is it a shit test or pure disrespect, i would say disrespect. Should i soft next or What is the best move? I dont want to seem butthurt and say ”i wont tolerate it”. I wont put up with this and are ready to leave and spin plates.