What to do if ltr sees you as leader/alpha and submits to you but doesnt respond to dread? Nothing red flaggish, just female autism and verbal/text vomit. I get annoyed, I let her know through AA or amused mastery. Sometimes she drops it and focuses on something else, sometimes not and and the autism continues. I tune her out, say "mhmm...mhmm" and eventually no contact for a few hours and come back with "oh I was with jen/sara/whoever getting ice cream (reminding her of the options, and to not be annoying) but it doesnt seem to stick as a lesson. She just comes back without so much as a whoopsie daisie. One time we even got into a no contact loop. She had royally pissed me off, and I went soft next for over 24 hrs. This is big to her because shes constantly in contact at least once every few hours. She later admitted that she knew she did something wrong but decided to go distant as well. That when I am distant, it makes her distant too.

We are taught not to be overt or give ultimatums. We are taught to use dread. But when a girl derps out and doesnt react the way she should, what choices are left? I saw a much older thread where someone asked about attempting 2/3 rule of contact with his ltr only to find that she only texts once and then waits forever, but there were no advice about this characteristic.