Okay, brief background. LTR is going on a trip to Miami this weekend. Says she's crashing on her female friend's couch (female friend has a BF). Three guys friends are also involved: two are flying down for the weekend (who everyone is pretty sure are gay) and one dude who also lives in Miami (I don't know anything about him besides the fact that he's apparently really good friends with her and her social circle of female friends). Pre-relationship her female friend was pretty wild...basically just going up and talking to any group of random people, crazy partier, lots of sex (the friend has chilled out a bit now that she is in a relationship...but who really knows because AWALT).

I know that there is a lot of negativity on TRP about girls going on trips and how they primarily go on them to party and hook up. I have not expressed any issues with the trip to my LTR yet and she has actually invited me to come on it.

So my question is two-fold: 1. Do I go on the trip or is that kind of clingy/me being too much in her shit? 2. If I don't go on the trip, do you guys think there are any red flags I should be concerned with with respect to her going on the trip?

Edit: One point I should add is that this trip was planned several months ago. We didn't know each other when it was planned and she was also single. So it wasn't as though we got in an LTR and then she went and planned this party trip.