LTR problems

azwildcat74 · 2018-05-11T14:01:57+00:00

Just stay in your frame like you are, despite her trying to shake you out of it. She said she made other plans, you did the right thing by doing the same. She seems to want you to sit at home without her because it would just be too 'awkward' to be out without her. Enjoy yourself at the BBQ! She is probably going to be blowing your phone up the whole time trying to figure out who all is there, don't play that game.

Start thinking about nexting.

X--Man · 2018-05-11T14:08:31+00:00

Time to apply some SERIOUS dread or even demote her to a plate, if thats even possible. If not, I would next her.

Too much bullshit...

Her:"Whatever, I guess we'll need to have a talk."

Just the fact that she would say this tells me she thinks she is the dominant one. Either you lost frame, or never had it.

I would personally ghost a girl the moment she said that shit. The next talk she has with you should be directly to your cock, asking forgiveness for the way she talked to you, or you are out.

Volt52121 · 2018-05-11T14:13:40+00:00

You need frame, she needs dread.

She vaguely said she's going out without inviting you and now demands a "talk".

Sounds to me she's not genuinely interested in building a healthy relationship and more into manipulating you.

Retstortion · 2018-05-11T15:36:46+00:00

You’re talking too fucking much.

If she isn’t behaving how you want, NEXT.

zboo1h · 2018-05-11T17:02:14+00:00

She's seeing if you'll budge.

What she THINKS she wants: "What? Where are you going? Will there be guys there? What are you doing? Is everything OK? PLEASE TALK TO ME WHAT DID I DO?!"

What she REALLY wants: "Ok." Then you go fucking do your own god damned thing and have fun with it and give her minimum to zero attention.

If it's just a shit-test, you'll pass, she'll submit.

However this behavior can also be the beginning of her rationalizing cheating and/or dumping you. I would become distant. Do your own thing but also keep an eye on her behavior - it will tell you exactly what's up.

Kommanderdude · 2018-05-11T17:31:43+00:00

You are behaving childishly. You are acting as a girl would. Your line about her making plans by herself made you sound like a butt hurt bitch. You should be prepared for this to end. She’ll probably next you. The reason I think it will end is because you don’t have the frame necessary for a ltr.

Title	LTR problems
Author	Rav_the_slav
Upvotes	1
Comments	8
Date	May 11, 2018 1:53 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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